Why not both?
seriously if i can’t discuss geopolitical economics with a lover, why am i loving them?
well it’s nice to know every time i have a good idea for a short everyone’s already done it and done it better, so just stay out of the film industry i’m better as a cameraman than a director :3
Never fear, everything’s been done in one form or another. Just got to give it your own little spin and it’s all good!
No i mean like that was the scene i had in mind and everything, i just am not good with the communist lingo. it cracks me up
Perhaps inverting all elements of this…
So, I finally made a fetlife account. I’m roughly 35, M.
Looking through people in my area.
See a fairly wide range of people, but notice that… a fair number of accounts are seemingly obviously lying about their age. In either direction, sometimes.
Follow a few accounts.
Surprisingly, one follows me back within like an hour or two … long story short, this woman has a fantastic body, but claims she’s 55. Isn’t showing her face on her profile, totally makes sense as a privacy measure, also leads me to think its more likely she’s listing a fake age, as another privacy measure.
I say hello type words, including basically ‘theres no way you’re 55 right? you look to be 15 years younger.’
Fucking nope, nope I am wrong, she actually is 55, and is just in incredible shape.
So I guess now I am entirely unintentionally into MILFs. Still think she looks great!
Did you also notice how many people are from Antarctica and 99yrs old? So far as the “no face pic” I would bet she has a lot of hidden - for friends only - pics that will have her face.
Why would a 40 year old lie about being 55? What a strange accusation hahah
I’d believe people are lying about being older if they’re really young on dating apps.
Why would a 40 year old lie about being 55?
So, on Tinder at least, there’s something I read about people under 40 being sorted and matched differently than people over 40. The end result being folks in higher tiers of service getting access to younger matches. But because it’s a semi-known exploit, you end up with people lying about their age to manipulate the match set.
You also get a weird phenomenon such that you see the same list of people showing up over and over again on your feed, until you cross the dateline and suddenly they all vanish.
Yeah I’ve heard of that. Usually it’s a person in their 20s that wants access to older people though, not 40 year olds trying to trick 55 year olds.
I mistyped, I meant to write 25 years younger.
But why would somebody lie from roughly 30 to present as 55?
Well really, the pattern that I thought I’d noticed was that people would just bullshit their age by a round number, 5, 10, 20, etc years, in any direction.
An obfuscation/privacy tactic more so than like, a catfishing tactic.
The other thing at play here is that … I was genuinely baffled, in disbelief.
I literally have never seen a 55 yo woman in as good of shape as she is, she’s in better shape than most women I’ve known who actually are in the age bracket I thought she was in.
I literally have never seen a 55 yo woman in as good of shape as she is, she’s in better shape than most women I’ve known who actually are in the age bracket I thought she was in.
Sigh.
???
Is… is this a problem for you, in some way?
That I have a body type preference, on a website explicitly designed for people to seek out specific consensual sexual experiences?
You’ve literally never seen a 55 year old woman in shape? I don’t believe you.
Look up a list of celebrity women who are currently 55 years old.
This idea that women are decrepit and ugly and old at 55 is asinine.
Edit: Y’all really going to believe that women like Salma Hayek and Cate Blanchett don’t exist?
It’s funny, because you can just go to the gym and meet people who are both old and in shape. In fact, you’re more likely to meet people who are both old and in shape at the gym because… older people who are in shape are the ones who go to the gym in the first place.
Exactly.
Literally one can go to the grocery store and find a woman who is over 50 and in shape. I would bet money.
honestly it’s more disingenuous and sexist to pretend that every 55 year old woman looks like Salma Hayek and Cate Blanchett, velma
The other thing at play here is that … I was genuinely baffled, in disbelief.
I literally have never seen a 55 yo woman in as good of shape as she is, she’s in better shape than most women I’ve known who actually are in the age bracket I thought she was in.
I’m responding to the assertion that a 55 year old woman in shape is enough to leave someone baffled and in disbelief because they’ve literally never seen a 55yo woman in as good of shape
I’m not saying every 55yo woman looks like Salma Hayek, but by existing they are disproving this original comment.
I mean, we’re gonna end up on economics and politics when we’re cuddling afterward.
If it was just about a cute body, people would just get Realdolls with warming coils. Some people are satisfied by that, sure, but not many.
What most of us like is a body animated by a vivacious and interesting intelligence of some kind.
And here’s the fun part: the more interesting the spooky animating ghost intelligence, the less cute the body needs to be.
My partner’s butt is, shape wise, probably pretty similar to many others. But when I squeeze it in a certain way, and it moves lithely in my hands like a big old disco cat… It’s genuinely the best butt in my universe.
If you think any kind of sex doll is in the same universe as even the dumbest most uninteresting person, you do not fuck.
wasn’t that his exact point lol
Even if it’s strictly sex, sex with a real human being is leagues different than sex with 40 lbs of heated silicone
why are u assuming gender
You do know in a significant number of languages in this world when gender is unknown the masculine form is used… Some languages, for example Spanish, would even use a masculine form for when the gender is known and a group includes both boys and girls. For example Tengo tres ninos… That sentence could mean I have three boys but it also could mean I have three kids of which some might be female.
So stop trying to be provocative… You’re bad at it
im not trying to be provocative im trying to be progressive
this is english: we have gender neutral terms, which should for many reasons be used
many people (including myself) find misgendering to be offensive, and many people (including myself) find complicity in the patriarchy offensive
and also in those other languages people and organizations still often favour gender neutral language; in spanish the forms -e or -i or -x or -@ are somewhat common, i see signage using -x or -e, and spam texts sometimes use -@
and also, why would you not adjust? saying “they” won’t hurt you
This comment sounds monolingual anglophone
I just enjoy some good mouth on me
I’m getting to the point my tastes are… inverting. Younger men looking better and better these days since older men for me is now actually old men lol
I actually thought about this. I don’t think when I’m 50 I’ll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.
No matter how old you get, 20 year olds stay the same age.
Brian! Get away from the bowling alley
As someone who has aged, I gotta disagree.
In high school, 20 year olds were ancient and wise.
In college, 20 year olds became peers and competitors
Once I started working, 20 year olds were the newbies
Now 20 year olds are indistinguishable from babies. Just having a conversation that ends with “After this we’re going to the bar, you want to come?” and getting told “Uh… I’m not quite old enough to drink” blows my mind every time I hear it.
Unless you digivolve into a grandaddy fantasy
I think the technical term is grave robbing, as opposed to cradle robbing.
Isn’t that only if you marry them for their money?
Not necessarily. I knew an extremely attractive young woman in her 20s who nicknamed herself the “crypt-creeper”, because well… that what she liked.
No reason to marsh others mellow.
Can confirm
do you think I went to his place at 3am to discuss the economical and political state of the world?
If it was my place then the answer would at least partially be yes.Me too, we’re lame
the econ department i went to had the best fundraising t-shirts:
[blank] department of economics
we don’t wonder why we don’t get invited to parties
we know
I would go to his house at 3am and make him discuss the economical and political state of the world.
If you came to my house at 3 am, the only discussion you’d be getting is: “Zzzzzzzzzzzzz.”
Midnight or 6am and that is a different story.
I mean if I’m still awake at 3am I’m gonna be down for either.
Yeesh violet wtf. I support all the silliness and I suspect the sluttiness is fake.
… even if it was a bit…
It would still be a good bit.
‘Local unabashedly horny woman posts about sexcapades, again, more at 11.’
There’s an entire subreddit dedicated to this type of posting. “Stupid Sluts Club”
What if the sluttiness is real and the silliness is fake?
This is super mild horny posting, TBH
Got a problem with sluts, buddy?
I want to talk to you about sluts
What about em? I got em all
Got the brand new 2027 f-600 slut 4x4 king cab space in the back for them big loads. Top of the line suspension for a smooth ride no matter the terrain.
The sluts I have at my lot are one of a kind. No credit? No problem. Trade in your old slut for the pimp daddy discount.
(Salamanderwizard’s slut lust lot is no responsible for any STD or STI, injury, maiming, death that may occur. We are not responsible for any lose of finical or other wise from said sluts using you and swindling everything from you.)
hey what’s your policy on tradeins, i got this lot lizard here what got run over by 15 wheels of an 18 wheeler
Hi, I’m calling about your slut warranty…
It’s 12 pm. Do you know where your slut is?
Bobby Hill is a little worried about being a slut.
No, talk to ME about sluts
I heard of sluts from podcasts?
Nah we be sluts. Don’t throw that shit at me and then call me “buddy”
I too appreciate the Oglaf comics, since forever, whatever the fuck you are talking about
Lost me on that one. Oglaf is a good comic haven’t read it in a few years. Still going?
Who are you to gatekeep other people’s kinks?
I would like to know what the fuck you are on about
So is this the same woman I’ve blocked twice now for awkward horny posts? Is she getting banned, or what? I don’t understand why the same person keeps coming back into my timeline even after multiple block attempts.
I looked at her history. she was bullied off and deleted her account. then decided to give it another shot.
honestly several people delete their accounts and start over every so often. no karma. so better to keep ur history clean
Interesting. Every time I saw anyone complaining about her constantly posting sexual stuff, several people would come to her defense. Guess I have to keep blocking her.
Also this is her third account I’m aware of in maybe 2 months.
People only come to her defense when she’s being horny. When she dares to speak of her experience as a woman, they all turn on her.
For example: https://sh.itjust.works/post/62056727
when she’s being horny.
That’s her only mode as far as I can tell. Even when she’s supposedly not being horny she randomly mentions wearing a bikini. It’s not fooling anyone lol
I literally linked you a post where she is not being horny.
velma, every time you comment outside of womensstuff it’s to stir up some kind of gendered fight. what’s up with that?
And? One counter example is not going to change my mind when I previously looked at her post history and out of like 8-10 posts all but one were overtly sexual and the one that wasn’t was her “randomly” mentioning her morning activity involves a bikini. Something no one would mention like that without that purpose. Regardless I’ve blocked her again and apparently will need to keep doing so. It’s not a situation where I’m hating on women which seems to be what you’re implying. I’ve blocked other people for being similarly annoying. And it’s not worth mentioning if they don’t keep coming back. Which violet has…
I’m convinced it’s a fat neckbeard larping as a horny woman.
Then they’ve done a great job getting the attention of other fat neckbeards.
Differents accounts my dude, the OP wants to use Lemmy without a fixed account, apparently.
Yeah.
