• MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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      2 hours ago

      velma, every time you comment outside of womensstuff it’s to stir up some kind of gendered fight. what’s up with that?

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        2 hours ago

        Is this a gendered fight? I’m just talking about violet.

        I’d have you know that I’ve left some pretty funny retorts outside of womensstuff that isn’t gendered lol

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            2 hours ago

            You’re going to stalk my post history and scold me, but then run away when I engage?

            Come on now, Minnesota. Or do you go by YMCA? You know, since we’re on a first name basis here hahah

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              wait, i’m stalking your post history now? because all of my interactions with you have been you being overwhelmingly hostile, you sealioning, and now i’m running away because i don’t respond IMMEDIATELY?

              seriously, you need some time offline.

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                  2 hours ago

                  i asked you question, i didn’t attack. no wonder you turn everything into a fight. go back to tumblr or digg or reddit, 2 month old troll

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                    2 hours ago

                    Minnesota, you know what you’re doing when you address me formally and ask pointed questions about starting gender wars. I wasn’t doing shit besides engaging in conversation with others.

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            2 hours ago

            In this conversation, I’m talking about violet and why she deletes her accounts and reappears every so often.

            How would you suggest I make those observations in a gender neutral way?

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                2 hours ago

                I got through to TrickDacy. I don’t know what your problem is.

                She does get raked over the coals when she talks about her perspective as a woman. I linked an example. Observing things that actually happen isn’t starting a gender war any more than the men who lust after her or question why she’s being slutty here.

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      6 hours ago

      And? One counter example is not going to change my mind when I previously looked at her post history and out of like 8-10 posts all but one were overtly sexual and the one that wasn’t was her “randomly” mentioning her morning activity involves a bikini. Something no one would mention like that without that purpose. Regardless I’ve blocked her again and apparently will need to keep doing so. It’s not a situation where I’m hating on women which seems to be what you’re implying. I’ve blocked other people for being similarly annoying. And it’s not worth mentioning if they don’t keep coming back. Which violet has…

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        6 hours ago

        Lol I’m not implying that at all. I was defending violet a little bit because she gets torn apart in the comments if she’s not being overtly horny.

        It’s very understandable why she deletes her accounts and then comes back. The men here can be ruthless.

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          Alright. You realize I can be annoyed by things right? That’s all I said. Not unreasonable at all. Maybe this woman has been treated bad, sure. Forgive me that if people annoy me, I don’t care to dive into their troubles in order to be sympathetic. I’m just disinterested in all of it.