• CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    I’m getting to the point my tastes are… inverting. Younger men looking better and better these days since older men for me is now actually old men lol

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      42 minutes ago

      Huh. I have always liked guys my age, whatever that age is, and always for some reason have been pursued only by guys my age or younger (defining “my age” as a few years in either direction). Will need to see if that holds, but I didn’t expect it to still be true at this age so maybe.

      Looks wise yeah I think more younger guys look better but OMG when I see a fit guy my age, that strikes me much more.

    • did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOP
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      12 hours ago

      I actually thought about this. I don’t think when I’m 50 I’ll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.

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          3 hours ago

          As someone who has aged, I gotta disagree.

          In high school, 20 year olds were ancient and wise.

          In college, 20 year olds became peers and competitors

          Once I started working, 20 year olds were the newbies

          Now 20 year olds are indistinguishable from babies. Just having a conversation that ends with “After this we’re going to the bar, you want to come?” and getting told “Uh… I’m not quite old enough to drink” blows my mind every time I hear it.

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            ”After this we’re going to the bar, you want to come?" and getting told “Uh… I’m not quite old enough to drink” blows my mind every time I hear it.

            Wait till you reach the point where it reverses and the 20-30 year olds are the ones asking and you have to decline.