• Doomsider@lemmy.world
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    I will tip for good service at a restaurant. I really try to do cash because it is common for management to steal all or a portion of the tips.

    I just had this discussion with my wife yesterday when I got a Subway sub for her. When I went to pay it asked for a percentage based tip. Keep in mind this sub was $16 where I live.

    I hate that corporations are underpaying their workers and trying to guilt you into giving them a tip which they then promptly steal.

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    People: “I am NOT paying my barista a tip for this, what do you MEAN they DEMAND a tip.”

    Meanwhile the Barista is being paid less than US$3 an hour because in America, you can be paid that and be expected to reach minimum wage through tips if you work food service. Want to end that? Demand that food service workers be paid minimum wage at the very least. Don’t want to do even that? Then stop getting fast food.

    • No, this will not raise the price of food in any meaningful way.
    • No, these are not all teens, the average age of a minimum wage worker is 40.
    • No, this will not raise the price of goods generally. Wages have remained stagnant and the price of goods have risen regardless.
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      In my city they get paid 21/hr min wage iirc, and while lower elsewhere, barely anywhere uses federal min wage right?

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        in my state it’s 17/20/25/27/38 i think but i’m not sure on the last two, it’s been a while. tips don’t enter into calculations at all toward your wages, they’re just separate.

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        Some places still use the federal minimum wage. Thats how you get Mississippi.

        Edit: looked it up. Says that in 2024, “843,000 earned federal minimum wage or below… Today, only around 1 percent of hourly workers earn the federal minimum, while almost a quarter of the U.S. workforce makes less that $17 an hour.”

        Source: https://www.statista.com/chart/9251/workers-earning-minimum-wage-or-below-united-states/

        Additional info: the min wage has not been increased since 2009. It should be $11.17 by now just with inflation - and that’s not a living wage, just an arbitrary poverty wage:

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          Damn well there’s the problem, ig i just live in an expensive city so there’s higher min

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      Don’t want to do even that? Then stop getting fast food.

      Not to take away from your point, but fast food workers get minimum wage, they’re not subject to the slave wages food service workers have to deal with. They get the moderately better minimum, rather than hoping tips makes it to minimum.

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      To be fair, I don’t think baristas get the ~$3 minimum wage. Not Starbucks workers at least. Still a valid point though.

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      I’m not aware of anywhere that pays (or is even allowed to pay) baristas what waiters and bartenders get. There may be exceptions. This post seems to be about literally anyplace with a new POS having basically options for 20-30% tips, despite the person behind it making like $15 an hour (at least where I live). Fortunately, lately, I’ll have the person reach around and press the “no tip” button often enough, since it’s usually the least obvious option available.

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        $15/hr still isn’t a living wage in most places, just for the record. It’s better than server wages for sure, but it’s not stable-life-level income.

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      Don’t want to do even that? Then stop getting fast food.

      That’s exactly right. Being against tipping as a concept is fine, but the idea that we can end tipping culture by refusing to tip is fundamentally accelerationist. “Surely if we torture the workers enough they’ll be forced to demand higher wages!”

      Either we refuse to even be customers for places that underpay their workers, or we tip generously to try to make up for it.

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        The logic of punishing our fellow victims of the system has always struck me as both misguided and cruel.

        Thank you for pointing it out!

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        This is what I’ve done. I haven’t been out to eat since before the pandemic. I got used to making my meals at home.

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      Fast food isn’t a place that typically solicits tips or pays tip wages. Sit down restaurants with waiters and bar tenders are where this occurs.

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        You’d be surprised. I’ve seen tons of fast food/counter service places that have tips enabled on the POS. And I sure as shit am not tipping at any place that I have to get my food from the counter.

        I begrudgingly tip at ‘real’ food/drink establishments, since I’m societally handcuffed to supporting worker slavery wages in restaurants when I go there, but fuck literally every other establishment that asks for tips.

        And I really need to get it through one of my partners’ heads that we should not be tipping minimum wage places, the org most likely pockets most of not all of that and the workers don’t see shit.

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      Responded to a guy that deleted his comment so it’s not visible anymore. Making fun of the system itself, barrista has nothing to be blamed about

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    I once went to a fancy rooftop bar where I was asked to pay in full (with tip) up front for a cocktail. No idea how that place is still in business.

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      Honestly, I kinda prefer that in bars? Means you can just walk off and not worry about paying once you’re done.

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        Plus, I’ll tip $1-2 for a fancy cocktail even if the service is crappy, because those take time to make, so I don’t really need to know what the service is like ahead of time unless it’s incredible. This sounds like it wasn’t though.

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          In my experience, if you’re a regular tipping that amount you will usually end up getting stronger drinks after the first few visits.

          At one bar we had to ask them to stop because it was basically like drinking a glass of liquor.

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          The problem is do you know what those servers will do to your drink if they feel you did not tip enough!

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            I’ve been a server at multiple types of establishment in multiple countries. The only time anyone ever fucked with someone’s food/drink, it was because the customer had jumped one of the servers in the restaurant the week before and beaten the shit out of them.

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          And they should be getting paid for that time no matter what. No tip needed unless they are putting on a special show or gave you suggestions you needed.

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          Because the employees fight to keep themselves down and guilt us into helping keep them down. Look at how many people were fighting to make tips tax free instead of just paying people more.

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            Thats such a gross generalization. Does it happen? Yes totally, but the meme propagates a stereotype that the average (if not every) cafe worker is like this.

            Thats my main issue with a meme like this, is that it normalizes mocking and belittling a class.

            Would you for instance find it okay if we substituted “tips” for “change” and “barista” for “a homeless person”?

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      No bro, never implied that. You can criticize enshittification and the “let’s transform everything into sales, lootbox-mechanics and subscriptions” attitude without blaming the fucking workers