• sangeteria@lemmy.ml
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    vor 5 Tagen

    I was at the bathhouse and I topped this really hot Viet guy, like I was so into him. He did seem less into me but was also the first to initiate with me so he was prob like “eh, you’ll do.”

    I did get his insta and he followed me. I requested to follow him but he hasn’t accepted or rejected it. I’m tortured by this, this man is so hot. AND he wants to bottom for me, which is rare cuz I come off as such a cute submissive twink but I be slangin it yk

  • spacegoat@lemmy.world
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    vor 5 Tagen

    This is so confusing to me. I’ve spent quite a bit of time over there and unless those guys are completely counter culture, and there’s no way those two men view you as anything more than human trash.

    Is that what you want?

    • itsviolet@lemmy.worldOP
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      vor 5 Tagen

      Well, if we’re being cynical, they probably view me as a human ATM since I like spoiling them, and that’s likely the pragmatic reason they’re cool with the arrangement. But I’m fully aware of it and don’t care as long as I’m having a good time.

  • gigastasio@sh.itjust.works
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    vor 6 Tagen

    Yes but how are you? You said you were taking a mental health break and some of us would like to hear that you’re okay.

    • itsviolet@lemmy.worldOP
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      vor 6 Tagen

      I’m doing really well! Between weekly therapy, teaching English (which keeps me feeling productive), and doing fun things on the side, I feel balanced and grounded again, not like I’m just floating through life.

      • gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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        vor 4 Tagen

        I genuinely love that for you. Glad you’re taking care of yourself, having fun, and finding fulfillment in various ways! Also, glad you’re back!

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    vor 6 Tagen

    There is a man in Louisiana that has the fortune, if he ever found out, to say that I fucked his mom, his dad, his sister, and his grandma.

    We’re doing the lord’s work Violet. The lord’s work.

    • GreyEyedGhost@piefed.caEnglish
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      vor 5 Tagen

      Sounds like you’re doing the Lord’s and three other people’s work. I’m tired just reading it!

      • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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        vor 6 Tagen

        Well he was about nine at the time, and I’m not a pedophile.

        This was the early nineties in southern Louisiana and I was 17. So that’s two adults in their 30’s and one in her 50’s that had no problem fucking a very poor college student they hired to paint their house. They were definitely not the only 35+ year olds I had sex with before I was 18 while I lived there. Now seen through my 2026 eyes, there was a lot of questionable behavior from many “adults” back then.

        • Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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          vor 5 Tagen

          This was the early nineties in southern Louisiana and I was 17. So that’s two adults in their 30’s and one in her 50’s that had no problem fucking a very poor college student they hired to paint their house.

          I hate life. Let me fix that. I hate my life. I have never been in this kind of porny scenario before, despite trying my best. I even worked in a hotel.

          • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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            vor 5 Tagen

            I should clarify that it wasn’t all at once. Sister and grandma were a regular thing. Threesome with the parents only once. Grandma was the only one that knew.

            • Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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              vor 5 Tagen

              I should clarify that it wasn’t all at once.

              I should clarify that when they gave me 500 million USD, it wasn’t really in cash, it was in gold bricks.

              Threesome with the parents only once

              And also an apartment complex.

              Please have some perspective. I’ve spent years without getting laid.

        • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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          vor 6 Tagen

          Ok that sounds exactly like what I’d expect out of a 17 year old in Louisiana in the early 90s lol. Definitely not ok behavior for any of the adults involved, like holy crap yikes, but it fits with how my friend has described the state