• Delphia@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    I mean… think it dont do it bruh. Also absolutely correct.

    You know when the parents went for that meeting they also looked to be like "Well, is the boy at least justified in thinking “dat ass” was worth it.

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    This is what happens when you let children watch the Tate brothers.

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        13 hours ago

        Maybe you could categorize it under poor impulse control and poor understanding of social norms. But like, one incident doesn’t make a diagnosis.

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          & also add objectification of others, disregard of authority, narcissism, and slight delusions of grandeur (even after getting in trouble he still thought the teacher “wanted” him).

          but yes you’re right, one incident doesn’t make a diagnosis, if i were this child’s parent i’d start watching him closely though. becuase people with the antisocial personality disorder (commonly known as psychopathy) can lead normal lives, but they do need accommodation in the form of guidance and being taught coping skills

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      Your right. This was done by a pre teen but still what is it with teenage boys and sexual harassment? I remember as a high school student aged 17-20 a lot of the younger students would fetishize the idea of doing it with an older woman so I received a lot of unwanted attention. I asked out my literal 12-to-15 year olds. I got unsolicited dickpics through my Snapchat. I was given lewd comments/cat calls all the time. I was told I was a “baddie”, “Thicc” and a “MIFT”. I got my butt slapped, I had videos and pictures took of me without my consent and I was too afraid to do anything about it because I thought people would think I was being inappropriate or provoking them in some way.

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        Way to humble brag /s

        In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat.

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          “Way to humble brag /s”

          Well, I guess looking back they weren’t wrong, lol. Except on the ‘MILF’ thing. Idk how a 17-to-20 year old girl could be a mother. Unless I was Mexican.

          “In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat.”

          Teenagers are just great at sex crimes in general, aren’t they.

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            kids are cruel and usually lack any form of empathy, which is why they are “more direct”. Empathy is taught later on. But, taking pictures, sending dickpics, cat calling you are manners and those should have been teached by their parents. This is vile behaviour and those parents should know what their children are doing at school, maybe partially because of the lack of parental education. I am sorry you had to go through that and feel that helpless about it.