Trying my hardest to be civil in this uncivilised world.

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  • My wife is a woman too and most of my friends are women too and, unless you’re surrounded by masculine women or are yourself a feminine man, people’s tendencies, things they’ll tolerate and preferences are largely defined down sex lines, with small variations. Not that this matters, but saying “be nice, people are people” is both true and foundational and also completely useless to any straight dude trying to escape loneliness, lol.















  • YappyMonotheist@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldParents... Huh...
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    You reject everything as an “authority figure”/guidance besides your basest desires and whims, lol, that’s the whole problem. The difference in your society lies simply in opportunity, Billy Bob touches her niece the same way Diddy touched whoever he could, cause you believe in nothing… besides rebels like John Brown and miss Greta who actually believe in something and stand by it.




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    I don’t understand what this has to do with anything I said, lol. You don’t believe in God, so you don’t believe in things being objectively valid or not, some limits being strict regardless of whims, this is not for you. You go have your consensual orgies and mudplay in sex clubs in Berlin, I’m not stopping you. 🤷


  • This is why this form of moralising fails. Nobody told you not to eat poop, it IS horrible, it tastes that way, it’s horrible for your health and it leaves you with a nasty breath. Sex is/can be extremely enjoyable, it’s a calorie-negative activity even! And because it is, it had to be regulated, and God regulated it and left it as the gift between two people who know, love and commit to each other, it’s the only way it will not only “taste” good but be good for your psyche and soul’s health (and physical health too cause fucking around can have the known medical consequences). But of course, nobody can force you, you have to accept this yourself and enforce it to yourself.