• gnutrino@programming.dev
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    18 minutes ago

    Establish dominance by tying me up and whipping me raw. Fuck off with this passive aggressive bullshit.

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    3 hours ago

    I don’t know where this gender war crap comes from. I always dated people that I liked and wanted to be around. It was even fun sometimes.

    This sounds like an updated variant of “I hate my wife” boomer humor.

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    4 hours ago

    I know it’s a total cliché, but I’m so glad I was lucky enough to exit the dating world in the early 2010s

    Shit seems baad

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      It’s abysmal. Getting ghosted so often you don’t even know where you went wrong. A couple weeks ago i matched with someone who liked MCU movies, and I do too. I asked which were some of her favorites and when I reopened the app an hour later she deleted the convo 🤷🏻‍♂️

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      2 hours ago

      Yeah it was not fun to reenter the dating world recently but staying in a broken relationship would have been worse. I’m hoping good people still find good people through whatever medium. But I’m understanding that’s harder now (but still worth it). This type of idiotic take has always existed.

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      Gosh same. Me it was 2014, back when tinder still showed your mutual friends.

      This vitriol around spending money on dates is so annoying. Like if it concerns you why don’t you just do cheap dates like coffee or a joint by the river like a sane person?

      It weeds out any people whose values don’t align with yours on that front.

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    That’s why I always shout “first to cum doesn’t have to clean up the mess”

    I win every time 😎