Yo, she means nuts, right?
No, like, acorns.
I sort of understand malignant narcissism and its early victims. I’ll never understand the suckers who fall for it again after it’s been clearly and publicly exposed. Idiots are going to give this POS more money for a new project, if they haven’t already.
Edit: I’m not talking about Fielder. I’m talking about the inevitable investors.
god i miss her
dudes worry about their dick size too much. i don’t have a 12" dong, yet every woman I’ve been with before told me it could be a bit smaller and that they’re struggling with it
go fuck yourself. not everyone is from a country where pedophilia is normal
maybe next time you shouldn’t humble brag about your various sexual partners sexual organs?
The worst of having an 11" dong
Women can barely handle my 10" dong.
It actually is an issue. Most women don’t like having their cervix punched repeatedly. Girth can also cause pain. It really sucks when you can see it in their eyes that they start hurting but they tell you to keep going (my SO gets mad if I stop because she decides when she taps out).
A fun thing I’ve learned recently is that cocks too big to take everyday are called “vacation dicks”. The “just right” ones are “boyfriend dicks” or “husband dicks”.
Polyamory ftw
Ew.
The latter part here is the important thing. She communicates it, and until she says otherwise, don’t stop hammering or you’ll frustrate her.
My ex wife just couldn’t enjoy it, but tbh that’s because she wasn’t that into me. My girlfriend now just goes absolutely insane for it. There is a noticable physical accommodation difference in the two that I feel, and I guess the major difference is that she has a minimum arousal level before it’s effortless for her. And that’s both of us, its not great if Im not SSJ Blue and she’s not lost her mind enough.
What is SSJ blue ?
(Aka Super Saiyan God Super Saiyan from Dragonball)
Yeah… My wife totally says mine is too big… Totally
I mean, if you’re bottoming out you both will know it.
It’s quite variable too. I’m very average in terms of length and with one partner we discovered that that’s enough to hit the cervix. She did not have a pleasant experience that time. Others have been fine with my size (minus one size queen who found it far too small)
Heard variations of this twice. They came back so I took it as a W.
So I floated this video between LICSW and LPCC friends independently. All said she looked like she was in complete dissociation. The give away is apparently her voice?
The smile looks fake, but thats a “passive distant smile.” As in she’s completely withdrawn into a protective state. Her eyes only focus on the DIRECTION of Nathan, not Nathan himself.
Whatever happened prior to that clip caused her to severely dissociate.
Nah, those are just the eyes of a true narcissist. I know one and can clock that look a mile away.
Two things can be true. And if this is dissociation, a challenge to her self-image could have easily done it.
I found myself isolated to a relationship for 18ish years with one. I could write a book on narcissistic personality disorder. That’s why I sent it to my friends who are professionals in this. I thought I recognized it.
That makes sense I’ve learned the “BPD stare” by having experiences that make it terrifying for me.
Yep. It’s a trauma response, basically removes her conscious awareness to protect herself. Essentially prevents compounding exisiting trauma.
Personality disorders run in families, but are almost always environmentally caused - abused parent with PD abuses child who develops PD. But even then, the abuse can be caused by others too.
The little I know about her history - her family was obsessed with the status/wealth they were legacy to. Presumably, they could have traumatized her into believing wealth by any means necessary was the only way she would get the care her inner child needed.
As part of that - the narcissist would then be completely enveloped in awareness of their image and how others perceived them. They accepted no flaw, and if they could not fix a weakness, they found a way to avoid that flaw all together. Their ENTIRE identity then revolves around something they project on to others. They withdraw completely when faced with something they cannot use cognitive dissonance and blame to avoid. That means they usually LACK self-identity at all.
Its REALLY sad if you think about it. But the damage they do to other people isn’t ignorable. They are horrible in the way they treat and perceive others.
Yeah I have a history of disassociation as well (yay cptsd), but I’ve noticed a particular way it looks in cluster b folks, and it’s more clear the less healthy they are. (A friend who underwent enough dbt to have it be hard to tell she has bpd didn’t have the look at all.) I think it’s partly that they’re disassociating anticipatorally and in situations where they’re going in and out.
And yeah BPD and NPD are really similar in a lot of ways. My father is a narcissist and he had a violent childhood that drove him to seek status and control. Very similarly the BPD folks I’ve got scars from had rough childhoods as well, even the one who lied about every aspect of her past. They struggle with identity and self care and struggle to deal with distress without disassociating or attacking.
I’m sympathetic to cluster b folks, I’m incredibly grateful I managed to leave my childhood without being one of them. I wish them all great treatment and can be friends with many once they’ve gotten control of themselves and their emotions and are mostly asymptomatic. And I feel awful for the burdens their diagnoses and conditions leave on them throughout life. But also I can’t be the damage left behind in their wakes anymore.
If anyone with a cluster b personality disorder is reading this or anyone reading this feels like they might have one, DBT works when you commit to it and do all the work. It’ll be slow and it’ll hurt, but it saves lives especially for people with bpd. It can give you the tools to stop hurting yourself and others. Those of us who’ve been hurt by folks with cluster b disorders want the people with them to heal and learn to stop hurting people.
You’re last statement there is why I speak up about it. They can get help. They need to get help. For all the victims it can save. If these things are just discussed as blanket “sociopaths can’t be cured” then we just enable the abuse of more victims.
Yeah it’s why I’m so vocal about it too. I’ve seen multiple friends deal with long term trauma from the same person. And I also watched them start improving, and they seem a lot better last I ran into them. But I do also want to call out that it’s also about saving their lives, because for all the damage done, I do want what’s best for them. Up to 10% of people with BPD will die by suicide, treatment in bpd focused therapy reduces the risk. NPD is less established in both risk and effectiveness (in large part because they’re way less likely to seek treatment or be honest with medical professionals)
But yeah, best of luck with your healing. Part of me really wishes there was a community on here for recovering from abuse by folks in the cluster b, parents, partners, and otherwise
Oh, so that’s why my pants feel funny.
The best dicks are average sized but have an upward curve to hit the g-spot or prostate perfectly. 😌
Banana dicks unite!
I’m a successful billionaire and I see no red flags what so ever!
To anyone wanting a teaser at the upcoming documentary:
I have no idea who those people are and the trailer doesn’t help me the slightest bit to know what’s going on.
Hah yeah it really doesn’t, does it‽
She is Elizabeth Holmes. Convicted fraudster responsible for Therenos which promised to sell miracle blood testing kits, but actually just got a lot of investor cash and conned a lot of people. Looking at this trailer, she still seems to believe her own crazy, but who knows.
He is Nathan Fielder, I guess you’d call him a filmmaker comedian? His schtick is that he’s basically able to put people in awkward situations in a way that is frankly hard to describe for me. The Rehearsal and Nathan For You are both very very unique and hilarious, but not for everyone.
I am unreasonably excited for this movie.
The woman is Elizabeth Holmes, the Theranos fraud.
The film tho
On September 6, 2026, You Can See Everything, an A24 documentary depicting Holmes in the weeks before she began her prison sentence, premiered in a surprise screening at the Telluride Film Festival.
The woman is Elizabeth Holmes, the Theranos fraud.
The what?
Just kidding, I just looked it up myself. She started a company with a product that didn’t exist… that’s all?
The whole story reads a bit underwhelming. But I guess it was a big deal if there is now a movie about it.
Not really a movie, just some guy followed her around a bit before she went to prison. She isn’t inherently interesting, just I think people are fascinated by a twisted mind like this. Especially because the documentary/whatever apparently doesn’t paint her in a good light, and she still allowed it. Delusional from start to end.
Surprised you’d never heard of Theranos before though. ColdFusion did a great short doco on it.
People here missing that Nathan’s mind is probably just as twisted, but in a different way.
This movie is going to be a trip.
She’s also really representative of the tech world of the late 10s on. SBF was juicer in drama, but Holmes is wild in what she managed to get away with and how long it took before anyone noticed it wasn’t physically possible to do what she claimed
That is unnerving
With no context it would be a horror movie trailer.
What film?
I can see everything.
Oh man that lady is sexy as hell and I know I can change her.
Oh hell no. Narcissists are the 9th level of hell of crazy. Never worth it.
Never worth it.
Worth noting, by all means have some mind blowing sex with the crazy women but don’t marry them.
have some mind blowing sex with the crazy women
yeah the trick is faking your death so convincingly that you can escape
Narcissists don’t work that way. If they like you enough to have sex with you, good chance you saying no in the future will hurt their ego and now you got a stalker who will tell your family, friends and police all sorts of nonsense to attempt to trap you.
It’s never worth it.
And they won’t like “you”, it’s only their validation you are there to do, so don’t think the sex is going to be better than using a sexy fuck doll.
The “good” (sex) crazy is another type of crazy, like possessiveness and so on.
Well, I was making a joke. Obviously people should be careful with who they share themselves with and use their best judgment.
Also I’m sorry for whoever hurt you, I’m not going through your account history but based on this comment it sounds like maybe you had to deal with some narcissist bullshit first hand. Me too, so best of luck and hopefully it has or will get better.
Haha it’s not me, it’s a buddy of mine who ignored all warnings and started hooking up with her. But she has dragged in people from my social circle, involved children, authorities, etc. It’s a lot of stress just being involved second hand.
Just really serious with my warnings because too many people think “I can change her/him” or “Its just this one time, it won’t matter”. Narcissists are super dangerous to deal with and will metaphorically burn the world around them to get what they believe they deserve. Much like the current US president.
Jesus Christ that’s crazy. Like actually crazy not just funny crazy.
will metaphorically burn the world around them to get what they believe they deserve. Much like the current US president.
Tell me about it. I have folks who (probably) voted for Trump telling me they’re worried about the food supply … These are the consequences for our politics and for electing Trump. Himself and his admin are only doing what they said they would. Which is awful.
I saw this comment “I bet it grips like a corporate handshake”
Would
What was he saying?
I love this picture, because nobody is wasting time wringing their hands about the impropriety, they’re all just doing what they see as needing to be done. Whether it’s the guy speaking, the one handing him notes, the people yelling at him or trying to physically stop him from speaking, or the people defending him with their bodies and physically holding back the ones trying to stop him.
The sense of duty is on full display from all sides in this image, and everyone is doing it with a sense of decorum too. A breach of procedure for sure, but who can say anyone in this photo doesn’t look in total possession of themselves?
The woman on the left, simply stating, again, I TOLD YOU
It is beautiful. Thank you for putting it into words.
I have definitely had the reverse experience. Ends up meaning certain positions are off limits, have to be gentle and careful with every thrust. It’s not a great experience for either of you.
Yep, my ex was giant and I wasn’t the first partner of hers to complain about it
Also BJs make their jaw hurt
Bumpin into the ol cervix eh.
If it’s long enough it goes where it belongs, behind the cervix 🤤
That’s not how female anatomy works.
The fuck is that emoji for
lol I would say it was a boxing match.
Me watching the first part of the trailer: “Why is she wearing an expression as if she is wearing a mask?”
My autistic ass after: “oh, fuck, she’s the bad guy”
