It began as a way to “secure” having your own babies. “I take care of all your needs and in exchange you only fuck with me so all your children are mine”. That’s why cheating wasn’t seen as a problem for men but it was for married women.
As male cheating became seen as problematic, though, marriage topics suddenly became pushed more by women rather than men.
Well that makes sense in their interest too? If I follow that weird logic, women can then monopolize the resources that the man brings?
Yes, lets all blame the one guy you’re thinking of that subjected the entire prehistoric population of earth to their concept of marriage. You’re a genius.
I’m not a historian, but I wouldn’t be surprised if marriage existed before governments
Government, church same difference (unfortunately very true in more countries than I’d hope 🤢).
Governments predate churches
Pretty sure marriage predates organized religion.
Modern marriage isn’t much more than a financial arrangement. Not tryna say people don’t get married for love, but the fact remains that as an institution, marriage isn’t about love and never has been.
This probably depends on the country, but being married can make some official processes simpler. For example, if a married person dies there are certain things that just default to their official spouse unless otherwise specified in a legal will.
This kinda makes your point about it being a financial arrangement, with a bit of a legal one in there too I guess.
I also think it sometimes makes things easier where kids are involved during official processes.
Also your spouse gets privileges and powers as you’re dying. The reason gay marriage is legal in America stems from someone being refused those rights. It was a major problem during AIDS too.
Literally just got married this weekend. It was for love. Because now, it’s in the public records that I love this woman, and she loves me.
It was cheaper (for us) than taking a press release.
Congrats! May you have joy together, forever and ever
https://youtu.be/vXpsT3e8UsM?is=f4szbr9-H82I0gYM
Government should have no place in your love life
Marriage historically didn’t involve the government becaue it wss a pre-government invention, it’s just that states grow out of organised religion (and the prevailing archeological theory is that’s quite literally why humans urbanised in the first place, because of organised religion.)
It was religion. Religion wanted to control sex. Think of the power this gives them. When you can have sex, with who you can have sex, how you have sex… They decided they wanted to control your life through sex (and social life too).
This is the reason why they were/are all so anti gay. Get people having sex all the time, they can’t have that! Also abortion. People having sex out of wedlock and not getting “punished” with an unwanted child? Sooo scary for them. Masturbation and pornography also, same thing. They want to get all up in your business. They want to control sex and it’s the power that gives them.
Marriage is the church’s way of giving you permission to have sex.
The obsession with sex is a thing from the abrahamic religions, but marriage is much older than any of them.
Pretty sure marriage was invented to trap women.
Babies trapped women far more than marriage could
Pretty sure its a way to transfer wealth between families
