• Elting@multiverse.soulism.net
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    1 day ago

    Modern marriage isn’t much more than a financial arrangement. Not tryna say people don’t get married for love, but the fact remains that as an institution, marriage isn’t about love and never has been.

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      8 hours ago

      This probably depends on the country, but being married can make some official processes simpler. For example, if a married person dies there are certain things that just default to their official spouse unless otherwise specified in a legal will.

      This kinda makes your point about it being a financial arrangement, with a bit of a legal one in there too I guess.

      I also think it sometimes makes things easier where kids are involved during official processes.

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        3 hours ago

        Also your spouse gets privileges and powers as you’re dying. The reason gay marriage is legal in America stems from someone being refused those rights. It was a major problem during AIDS too.

    • Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org
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      21 hours ago

      Literally just got married this weekend. It was for love. Because now, it’s in the public records that I love this woman, and she loves me.

      It was cheaper (for us) than taking a press release.