Its my first meme, be gentle

  • eldavi@lemmy.ml
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    3 hours ago

    s there a cool word like that for ftm and gay?

    The word is trans-men.

    As in: the number of trans-men that I’ve been hooking up with lately has made me concerned about accidental pregnancy for the first time in my life as a cis gay man.

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        3 hours ago

        It’s queer not somehow not automatically assumed when my example explicitly states men hooking up w men?

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          3 hours ago

          i’m saying your example is wrong. it does not automatically assume when you’re a transman you’re going to be a man who hooks up with man. you’re just reading your own preferences into it because that’s what you’re looking for

          what is the word for ftm who hook up with women then? is heterosexuality that terrifying to you? or do they not exist like bi men and intersex folk

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                45 minutes ago

                I understand where you’re coming from but lots of us queer folks don’t think of attraction in terms of genitals, and eldavi didn’t say you had to like particular genitals either. Back to your original point, transbians don’t only date other transbians, many date cisbians. Trans people who only date trans people use the label t4t.