• RadioEthiopiate@lemmy.zip
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    1. Belief in the concept of an “alpha male” necessitates having a strongman leader.
    2. Bootlickers need a boot to lick.
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      Downloaded. Definitely going to use this next time I see some CHUD making wildly sweeping statements about trans ppl.

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    Because they’re too intellectually challenged to think for themselves, so they need somebody to tell them what to believe

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    Because part of conservatism is the idea that hierarchies based on who your parents are, and the fact that you’re male, etc. are proper and right.

    They want to submit to the people who are correctly above them in the hierarchy, and want the people who are supposed to be below them in the hierarchy to submit to them.

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    Because in reality they are betas, they call themselves alphas but they are easily manipulated and they are lap dogs of powerful people

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    Fear.

    They rally around figures who look strong because they’re afraid of losing social status, or feeling xenophobia due to racism, or insecure over economic concerns. As always, everything is projection with these dipshits. They let fear drive them into the sort of groupthink mob they accuse liberals of being.

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      I sorta understand, I guess. But having president whatshisnuts as your figure of manliness is already a joke in itself, but elevating him to a messiah like figure is just crazy.

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        Helps if your world view is shaped by people who are continually telling you that he’s a figure of manliness, while constantly playing off your fear and insecurity for profit and political gain.

        EDIT: It’s also a very unrealistic standard of what it means to be a man, almost a caricature. It’s a masculine ideal rooted in myths of the “common-sense everyman hero” who’s wisdom is more valuable than other’s knowledge, instincts more accurate than other’s intellect, and cunning able to overcome other’s skill. He’s a man who’s anger and will can overcome insurmountable odds, and who’s “rough-around-the edges” personality is more attractive than practiced social graces. There’s no need for growth or change, because our hero needs nothing more than the innate qualities he already possesses to thrive, and because of that failure is never his fault.

        It’s the aesthetic of romanticized cowboys, gangsters, renegade cops, and retired spec-ops, a domesticated version of 1980’s gritty action-hero masculinity adapted for group membership. It’s always framed as bucking authority and going against the grain, even though conformity is required to be one of the “good guys”. Being low on the totem pole allows you to gain the virtue of being a simple man with a simple life, or being the trusted sergeant “who really makes things happen around here”, but doesn’t mean that you’re incapable of rising to any occasion just because you have guts. Washboard abs or hard work are only important when they can be used to show how weak and ineffective your opponents are, but what’s really important is that you’re able to dismiss, demean, deny, and destroy anything that doesn’t conform to the right way of doing things to gain the accolades you’re due and save yourself the embarrassment of having to admit your hero fantasies aren’t true.

        Again, it’s ridiculous to apply this ideal to the bloated orange, but it’s an image he cultivates. His personal mythology is embodying that ideal and gaining massive success in every endeavor because of it. It allows his failings to be used as evidence that he’s “just like us”, and not as examples of his overall lack of redeeming qualities.

        But I wouldn’t expect it every really make sense, because at it’s core it’s just a bullshit justification for getting whatever they want with as little effort as possible.

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          That’s absurd AF but it actually does make sense in a weird, twisted worldview sort of way. Thanks for the explanation!

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    I love how they are all “don’t tread on me” on the bumper sticker, but in reality they are all “step on me harder daddy”.

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    The German philosopher Hannah Arendt asked herself a very similar question when, during the trial of Nazi official and war criminal Adolf Eichmann, she attempted to understand how a human being could be capable of such monstrous atrocities. In this context, she coined the expression “banality of evil.”

    It is worth taking a look at her book “Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil,” because her observations in it are, unfortunately, once again highly relevant today.

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    Because they are weak pissants with no nation, creed, or honor simply following the authority who makes them feel good about themselves. It’s kinda pathetic ain’t it? This is why I force myself to be ambivalent to all authority who aren’t part of my kin, kith, or clan by default since you can’t manipulate me with funny feelings because I already didn’t give a damn.

    Or maybe I’m just from a culture that has been dealing with cultists for so long that some of us have built in anti-cult practices. Kinda a chicken and egg scenario.

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    Political posts like this tend to frame things in extremes. In reality, people across the spectrum can be loyal to leaders or critical of them—it’s usually more nuanced than a single label suggests.

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      This isn’t an excuse they’re just weak. Many have authoritarian fathers or parents and come out vowing to never be like that or support that behavior.

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          I think they’re born weak too, but both things can be explanations without it being an excuse.

          Small town lifer here, the worst children I knew grew up very predictably. IMO, most people don’t really change much at all with age.

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            They don’t, sadly, and what makes it worse is the endless amounts of religious indoctrination and bullshit media constantly feeding us the narrative that people in general grow and learn over time and become better people, and that sentiment has been internalized at every possible level of society at large, but (as a general rule, nothing is universal) things couldn’t be further from the truth.

            I’m glad my Pop is a badass and taught me how to think and not what to think.

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              They don’t, sadly, and what makes it worse is the endless amounts of religious indoctrination and bullshit media constantly feeding us the narrative that people in general grow and learn over time and become better people, and that sentiment has been internalized at every possible level of society at large, but (as a general rule, nothing is universal) things couldn’t be further from the truth.

              I agree with you here of course, quite strongly.

              I’m glad my Pop is a badass and taught me how to think and not what to think.

              So that’s the thing I think about a lot. How much influence did he really truly have on you vs you both just happening to be like-minded to begin with? Ties in with my thoughts on free will vs determinism too. My belief in a weak mind being born doomed now comes into this picture. But I’m one of those annoying compatibilists because my own father has moved slowly from staunch conservative to centrist over time. Maybe only because I’m his kid, who really knows. I’m 35 and only just got him to finally admit he was pretending to be Christian to stay with my mother. I always suspected.

              Here’s where I’m coming from, so the perspective can hopefully makes more sense:

              • born in a monocultural conservative town 1990 99.5% white people. Seriously I can only remember one black kid in school.

              • my mother co-founded her own Baptist church.

              • I wasn’t rebellious, and I even attended youth groups and bible camps regularly.

              • my 2nd earliest memory I can still recall is fucking surreal: In a public elementary school, the principal lead a morning prayer once a week in the morning gym assembly. Everyone. Everyone stood up student/admin/teacher/janitor. Everyone bowed their heads to repeat the principal’s prayer. Except one of my classmates one day, she remained seated. This blew my mind. I sat down with her, and she gave me a wide grin. Who knows why, but this moment was cemented into my skull surrounded by the overwhelming majority and choosing to sit out of their mindless tradition.

              I never at any point believed in any gods, nor was I at any point a conservative. How could this be given the environment I was raised in?

              I think it’s simply because I was born with innate critical thinking. I also did not believe what anyone not even my own parents when they told me things at face value. The early internet and the library was where I went to see if something I was told was true or not.

              ~80% of humans are theists, it’s incredibly sad.

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    It’s simple. They are super insecure guys and want to feel big, so they are assholes to women because women are easy targets. They drive massive trucks, love to BBQ and watch sports with other insecure men, but at the same time they lack any real identity and are completely lost without their mommy to take them by their hand. But mommy is a woman, and having your mommy to care for your insecure ass looks stupid to your friends, so you just follow another screaming asshole so you look touch yourself (you do not, you’re a sad piece of garbage and everyone sees it).

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      Great explanation but I also love BBQ. Please don’t bring BBQ into this. It’s not BBQ’s fault.

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        I like to BBQ too, although no longer with meat.

        Not every person who likes to BBQ immediately is an insecure asshole. It’s just that insecure assholes like to BBQ to feel manly.

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        That was my question. I’m working on a brisket as we speak and I don’t plan on watching sports, wearing a red hat, or treating any women like shit.

        I also have a truck that I haul shit in, but notice I don’t feel the need to ask what’s wrong with that. I know very fucking well what’s wrong with trucks.

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        The idea that eating dead, half burned animals makes you more of a man. While in fact most meat comes from female animals and is full of estrogen.

        If you want proof it’s stupid, listen to RFK jr. his advice. He has an almost full meat diet. Anything this guy says, you should do the exact opposite.

        I’m a vegan but I’m not judging people who eat meat. I do however judge people who only do it to compensate their micropenis, to act like they’re a real man. While they can’t even drill a hole in a wall, repair a dripping tap or patch a bicycle tire.

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          He said he eats meats and “ferments”. What is a “ferment” because I have never heard that particular word used to describe a type of food.

          Also, BBQ is not at all the issue here. Not in any way.

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          You do know that it’s possible to like a style of food without subscribing to a stereotype?

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            Just because there are people who need giant pickup trucks for work doesn’t mean every guy needs one.

            I’m talking about the behavior of a certain type of person. I’m not saying everyone who likes to BBQ has a micropenis. I’m just saying people with a micropenis do it to feel more manly.

            So, do you know a stereotype can do a certain act just because of their stereotype, without the act being bad on itself?

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      I’d like to point out that grilling and barbecue are different things. Most guys do not barbecue. Grilling is extremely common, though.

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      Why is it ok to put every single person that votes a certain way into a box? I would also like to point out that Canada is not the USA. Canadian conservatives share very few values with their American counterparts

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        People who have no clue of how the world works vote a certain way. They put themselves in a certain box by voting dumb.

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        Huh, I guess you don’t know folks who have fox news on all the time, then. It’s pretty common in Alberta. The values are pretty in sync after years of that.

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    Did you hear Trump’s press conference yesterday? Dude was talking about how much he wanted to kiss this steel worker for like 2 minutes.

    They are all closet homosexuals.