• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    3 days ago

    In the immortal words of Everlast (House of Pain), “It ain’t a crime if you don’t get caught”.

  • DonutsRMeh@lemmy.worldBanned
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    People getting mad on a shitpost is even funnier. Does the word “joke” mean anything anymore? I’m waiting for the “aackshually” replies now. 🍿

    • itsviolet@lemmy.worldOP
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      I don’t get jealous, so the real dealbreakers for me are incompetence (getting caught) / lying (not being honest about it), not the actual fucking around.

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          Some guys swear they’re strictly monogamous just ’cause they’re scared you’ll fuck other guys too, then they cheat anyway. It’s not that straightforward.

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        You should also be annoyed at the additional risk of STDs if there’s unknown people in the chain

        I don’t like cheaters because I wanna watch, we are not the same

      • BooBees@fedinsfw.app
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        Yeah and this isn’t from the point of a cheater, it’s from the point of a partner who is clearly into intelligence as a kink, known as a sapiosexual. Sapiosexuals are found in high percentages of couples who have open relationships, but open relationships require massive amounts of communication and trust. If you find out your partner is an idiot who is caught dismissing or outright breaking the previously agreed up rules, it stands that you find them less attractive because they’ve proven they were not very smart about the agreement, they put the relationship and perhaps your and their health at risk. This doesn’t have to be about cheating, it can just be about stupidity. Focusing on the cheating says more about the commenter above and not the original post.