I don’t get jealous, so the real dealbreakers for me are incompetence (getting caught) / lying (not being honest about it), not the actual fucking around.
Some guys swear they’re strictly monogamous just ’cause they’re scared you’ll fuck other guys too, then they cheat anyway. It’s not that straightforward.
I don’t get jealous, so the real dealbreakers for me are incompetence (getting caught) / lying (not being honest about it), not the actual fucking around.
You should also be annoyed at the additional risk of STDs if there’s unknown people in the chain
I don’t like cheaters because I wanna watch, we are not the same
True. Both incompetence and lying cover that too.
Then just open the relationship up from the get go?
Some guys swear they’re strictly monogamous just ’cause they’re scared you’ll fuck other guys too, then they cheat anyway. It’s not that straightforward.