• Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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    5 hours ago

    How many times can you do that?

    Yeah sure, few times to find out what the fuzz is about and then move on. Do you have any idea how many times people have sex in a relationship, a lot more than just a few times.

    Just for clarification, I’m not ace or at least haven’t accepted it and just have difficulties with libido and remembering that I’m supposed to have sex.

    • harmony@piefed.blahaj.zone
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      2 hours ago

      Ace people can actually still have a strong libido! It’s more about sexual attraction.

      Of course, others are straight up repulsed by even the thought of sex. It’s a wide spectrum.

      • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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        36 minutes ago

        Yeah, they’re the lucky ones of the cursed spectrum. At least that can be taken advantage of even if there’s no direct target for it.