• idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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        There’s sex stuff, and then there’s the sticky, fragrant, bitter, salty, hard to wash off remains of sex stuff.

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          Nah, its fine not to like cum. We all don’t need to be cumsluts.

          Tho, I am a personal enjoyer of the after effects of sex. Soak me in girl juice.

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            I’m also very down for vaginal mucus, but semen is different for me (it’s the bitterness and the egg white consistency that makes cleaning up annoying). Do you like your own semen?

            Edit: not to sound like nobody likes it. I know two men and one woman who fucking love semen. But everyone else I’ve talked about it with who comes into contact with it… plays up their enjoyment of it to be a good partner.

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              I’m not gonna say I enjoy my own cum but i’ve certainly enjoyed scenes involving me swallowing my own cum. The cleanup aspect you just get used to it and the bitterness can be solved through diet.

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                I’m not gonna say I enjoy my own cum but i’ve certainly enjoyed scenes involving me swallowing my own cum.

                That’s about where most people I know who aren’t especially into semen are, myself included. Maybe I made it sound like a more negative opinion than it is. It’s just one of those things where the reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy for me, so I’ve got opposing desires for the semen deposit location (I’m sorry, this is a horrible way to describe it) based on arousal and pragmatism.

                For what it’s worth, the ranking for me for most to least pragmatic goes: condom, mouth, body, vagina, hair. For arousal, it depends on the situation, but hair is also always last, lol.

                Finally, I’m autistic and I don’t think this is the exact same metric allistic people would use (and they might be less bothered by the feeling of semen leaking out of them), so take this with a grain of salt.

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                  Oh, you don’t like the feeling of cum in you? Yeah, that ones been outside the norm at least for me.

                  On my relationships we basically had the same kind of scale, we’d try it all but once we found what we liked we’d stick with it most of the time. Tho, I do have a clear oral fixation either in giving or enjoying, so mouth is pretty high up that list for me.

                  All in all, I personally appreciated this discussion, as it’s fairly rare to discuss these things with someone other than your current partner.