violet08@lemmy.today to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 12 hours agoa girl can never be hyperfeminine/sexual, chaotic, unfiltered online without ulterior motives allegationslemmy.todayimagemessage-square121fedilinkarrow-up1412arrow-down137
arrow-up1375arrow-down1imagea girl can never be hyperfeminine/sexual, chaotic, unfiltered online without ulterior motives allegationslemmy.todayviolet08@lemmy.today to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 12 hours agomessage-square121fedilink
minus-squareGreenKnight23@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·1 hour agohookups are two consenting individuals. reaching out to a stranger that hasn’t given consent or worse, just sending dick pics, is just weird.
minus-squarecaptainlezbian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 hour agoAh I interpreted reaching out to strangers more broadly as including going to places where it’s normal and expected behavior to pursue strangers for sex. Dick pics I’ve just always assumed were about power like catcalling.
minus-squareGreenKnight23@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 hour agothat I can agree with. nobody should be upset about getting hit on at a bar, because it’s a social gathering place generally used for hookups. but it’s perfectly acceptable to get upset if you’re hit on at work.
hookups are two consenting individuals.
reaching out to a stranger that hasn’t given consent or worse, just sending dick pics, is just weird.
Ah I interpreted reaching out to strangers more broadly as including going to places where it’s normal and expected behavior to pursue strangers for sex.
Dick pics I’ve just always assumed were about power like catcalling.
that I can agree with.
nobody should be upset about getting hit on at a bar, because it’s a social gathering place generally used for hookups.
but it’s perfectly acceptable to get upset if you’re hit on at work.