• But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world
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    5 hours ago

    Hes rich, that’s the only reason. I like to dress comfy too but if you show up to a black tie event in shorts, it’s not being comfy, it’s being a disrespectful jerk.

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      5 hours ago

      Please explain how wearing a hoodie to a “black tie event” is disrespectful, and who it’s disrespectful to.

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        3 hours ago

        It’s disrespectful to the people who set it up and to everyone else who is there to have a nice evening. Im not big on wrestling formal attire but I got invited to see the nutcracker at the symphony so I put on a nice sweater. Imagine you invite someone to a wedding and they show up like that, you’re gonna say that’s not disrespect I mean if you don’t find dressing like that to a black tie event disrespectful that’s just a reflection on you

        • ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          2 hours ago

          How exactly does “seeing a man wearing shorts and hoodie” affect your “nice evening?” Seems weird to let something so small that is completely unrelated to you affect you so much that you feel disrespected. Honestly I’d argue your projection is more a reflection on you here.

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          2 hours ago

          It’s disrespectful to the people who set it up and to everyone else who is there to have a nice evening.

          How

          I mean if you don’t find dressing like that to a black tie event disrespectful that’s just a reflection on you

          How

          I’m begging you, explain how it’s disrespectful. I don’t think you can, because I think you agree with me that it isn’t actually disrespectful.

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            2 hours ago

            It’s not my job to educate you or teach you manners or how to live in a society. How can I explain all that in a chat reply when you’re clearly ignorant and weren’t raised right. I can’t fix you dude

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              18 minutes ago

              If you understood how it’s disrespectful, it wouldn’t be hard to explain. Here’s an example:

              Sexual assault is disrespectful because it violates a person’s bodily autonomy, which is a fundamental human right.

              See? Easy. Now, try that for “people who dress wrong”.

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              1 hour ago

              The community is selectively bred Redditors, fam. We’re just lucky they ban the obvious racism here.

              Just pop your head into the threads about how showers are a scam or whatever and keep it in mind whenever you’re talking to them

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        4 hours ago

        People need to find things to be mad over apparently. No one was disrespected. They clearly let him in dressed like that. And aside from the chat here no one is talking about this…