In my early 20s I was told I was too high functioning for drugs. Now in my late 40s I tried again as I was struggling at my new job, still won’t prescribe me drugs unless I’m actually failing at life.
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Similar but different story: in my 20s I was too high functioning. In my 30s I got on meds annyway and it made a huge difference. By my 40s unfortunately, it seems like every stimulant-type drug makes me feel like I’m on the verge of a 12-hour-long heart attack. So here I am off the meds and living with all the noise again :/
No luck with non-stimulant adhd meds?
I tried Strattera for a few months but it made me feel physically ill all the time, and honestly I didn’t think it had much effect on the ADHD. Other than that I haven’t gone too far down the rabbit hole, my coping mechanisms are pretty good, thankfully.
Oh no, that sounds terrible. I’ve not heard of an experience like that before.
Yeah, sadly it’s not too uncommon a side effect as you get older – not just for ADHD meds but for all stimulants. I guess that’s why you don’t see a ton of coked-out 80 year olds.
I’ll definitely dig into this. Particularly since I’m older!
I have been successful despite ADHD. If your condition makes it harder to do your job, creates anxiety, causes you to procrastinate… that’s enough impact. There’s a test. If it says you got the condition, then there’s no reason not to prescribe. I hope you can find better doctors
Good thoughts there, I was referred to someone else. Wish me luck!
Because of this I followed up and have an appointment in a few weeks. Wish me luck!
Warms my heart! Godspeed 🫡
Autistics that experience life without medication (because there isn’t any):
“Well, first of all, with alcohol and masking, all things are possible, so jot that down.”
Highly recommend taking the self-diagnostic questionnaire for ADHD. There’s a ton of overlap with ADHD and (high-functioning) autism and a lot of new research is kinda leaning towards the idea that they may be closely interrelated. I’ve heard mixed things, some people close to me have said ADHD meds make their autistic traits more noticeable. I personally, and others I’ve spoken to, find that it helps a lot with my more autistic side as well. I don’t feel as though I’m masking as much since starting meds. Or the mental burden of masking is lessened. Idk, it’s eased a ton of social anxiety and mental load.
My kids say I am ADHD self medicating with coffee. But I have held a job for decades, and figure the line for medication is when you have distress. I am not really distressed, or wasn’t until I read that untreated ADHD was a risk factor for dementia, which was as sort of distressing.
It’s hard to get diagnosed old though, and I can’t do Adderall, like my kids do, because I had restrictive eating disorder young and really like speed. Yes, probably because it “fixed” me but I am afraid I’d abuse it, and very certain that wrecking my appetite would be a mistake. Too easy to feel virtuous about not eating and unfortunately midlife eating disorder is pretty common, I have mixed feelings about the more womanly and bigger body I got at menopause. Everyone else tells me I am in great shape, but I miss tall skinny angular build.
Anyway, in short- I do have personal reasons to avoid the meds. So usually coffee at 10 and 2 (14). Strong coffee. But not strong enough I forget to eat.
You guys are drinking coffee?
I only started drinking coffee within the last 5 years or so, but it semi-helps! Puts you on the toilet a lot more so you’re exposed to more shit and less bullshit! (Unless you doom scroll Lemmy like me…)
I just got my meds TODAY! After 7 years of trying to get on them again. I miss normal life. Gonna go get it.
Caffeine helps how exactly? I skip that part and raw dog it all day.
ADHD wants stimulation. Caffeine is a stimulant.
it is a mild stimulant, so it kinda helps a tiny bit. Sometimes just enough to get trough life if consumed in massive enough quantities
In my 20s, I decided that ADHD wasn’t real and I didn’t need my med. I also went through eight cups of coffee and a pack of cigarettes a day. Went back on my meds in my thirties, it’s easier and cheaper.
I like your profile picture
Thanks! Started as a placeholder, but eventually the humble Yorp won me over.
you must not live in the united states. I needed 700mg of Vyvanse to level me out and kill the fog. Unfortunately without Insurance that shit is like $400 a week.
No, I’m in the States, I just have insurance. Four weeks of Adderall cost me $10, cigarettes cost me about $15 a day.
You know my dad use to smoke 2 packs a day and as a kid I didn’t understand why I enjoyed the second hand smoke but now that I know I have adhd it makes sense lol
coffee and cigarettes is a popular combo with schizophrenia too
I mean, coffee and cigarettes is just a popular combo in general.
For the real advice, watch this hour long video…
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I didn’t know about ADHD growing up and neither did my parents, grandparents or my teachers apparently so my first 2 years in school meant that if i was unruly in class then me and anyone else would be pulled up by our sideburns in front of the whole class by a 70 year old fat whore which i still hate to this day and then there was also a possibility i would face the wrath of the belt when i got home.
This was in the Balkans and being a kid around some of the rednecks there in the 90s was a fucking nightmare.
Some of you may think i am being harsh on them but nah fuck off, the only thing i got from that was self loathing and suicidal thoughts and even though they tell me now that they are proud of me and how i managed to get a good life together i still have the same thoughts as i did back then that i am a worthless piece of shit that they should have strangled when i was born and when life gets tough i think about slitting my throat or some other suicidal shit to CALM MYSELF DOWN because that means i would be free of this shitty existence and the worst part is i have gotten used to that.
Live with your demons until they kill you.
Also i don’t smoke, drink or take meds.
Next year i’ll be 40, wonder how long i can keep bulldozing my way through life like this.
From a similar experience I can say you have plenty left in you. This shit also made us strong and unwilling to easily surrender. And ya’ll better hope hauntings aren’t real cause I’m gonna come back and get my ghostly revenge if given the chance.
don’t forget an almost fanatical devotion to marijuana
As a pharmacy worker who also has ADHD, I simultaneously feel bad for every fellow neurodivergent who relies on prescriptions - especially the controlled ones - and am so resentful that our system (US) makes getting meds so difficult that, crippled as I am, I find it better to go without prescription treatments than to rely on something that I know is going to be full of disruptions.
I also made the executive decision years ago to avoid prescription dependence after hearing about all the reports of Occupy protesters having their medications confiscated by police. Our healthcare system is weaponized.
The worst thing for me is the meds require being consistent. Something that is fucking hard to do with ADHD. It’s cruel.
Exactly. I once made the mistake of quitting adderall abruptly once I ran out. Huge mistake. It kicked off a deep, constant depression that lasted I think at least a year. Ended up dropping out of high school soon after.
Possible? Sure. Easy? Hell no.
Caffeine? For ADHDers? Idk about the rest of you, but that doesn’t help me accomplish anything. Anger in the other hand …
The trick is to drink seven cups of coffee over the course of an hour. You skip straight from feeling nothing to jittery limbs and an acute awareness that you have a heart and it is straining far more than it should.
It doesn’t help anything, but you DO feel it.
9 shots of espresso suuuuuucks if you have nothing to actually do for the hour or so it lasts.
Ask me how i know 🙃
We had a salesperson who came in every day with a Starbucks cup. I asked her once what was in it. “Eight shots of Espresso.”
Every day.
From experience, everyone else starts talking intolerably slowly, and giving you worried looks. You have time to plan your entire project between their sentences, and come up with at least three major revelations before they’ve finished their point, but when you escape, you’re so focused on the task in front of you that you forget them all. Caffeine giveth and caffeine taketh away.
spite is my sole motivation. caffeine is my sleeping aid
I did this for 45 years. Wouldn’t recommend it.
