That’s kinda toxic
I guess, but talking shit to your siblings is just kinda what happens. Siblings have less of a filter with each other than any two people on the planet. That doesn’t mean they wouldn’t die for each other if it came down to it though.
Yeah, I’ve seen it said that sibling is like a built-in best friend. And the very best friends will curse you to the depths of hell with a straight face and hear you do the same, and still remain your best friend
My older brother has me blocked, younger brother rarely texts me. It is like I am an only child. I am the only one who goes to my parents for holidays. I would never die for my brother’s.
Your brother’s what!?
Some families grow up less afraid of words than others.
Some grow up without fearing words, but understanding the implications of the language they use and the effects it can have on others.
But no, it’s definitely that people are “afraid” of the words, not that they try to be cognizant of their words and actions.
You way overthought that one bro.
Definitely not. Knee-jerk response. Do you not think about the impact of what you say to others?
How many siblings do you have or did you grow up with?
Doesn’t matter how many siblings I’ve had, how many kids I’ve raised, or how long I’ve worked in environments where people talk rough.
Don’t be a debate pervert. Go learn about mutual respect.
Don’t be a debate pervert. Go learn about mutual respect.
I mean my older brother once used me as a human dartboard and left me with tiny holes in my stomach…another time he put bottle rockets in my shoes and tried to launch me away because he didn’t want me anymore.
I was like 3.
We’re adults now and I still love that asshole, so I’m just saying…siblings are a whole nother level. lol
Some families are.
It’s not toxic to call out bad behaviour.
Lmao of course this is the top reply
Nah, Dad is laughing at you. Not with you. He knows exactly what’s coming next.
Haha, casual sexism is funny when it’s a sibling!
it absolutely can be. lots of folks have a sense of humor, you should look into getting one for yourself
I bet you money I can make a joke that you will not enjoy/will upset you. Use your imagination. Your line for “too far” is not the universal standard, so don’t treat people like they’re wrong just because they don’t share your exact level of tolerance and exact same list of subjects available for humor.
Thank you! What a reasonable take.
I don’t post my dissent because I have no sense of humor or because I expect people to universally agree with my own sense of humor. I posted this because I hoped some people would think, “huh, maybe I shouldn’t post jokes that further propagate the harms caused by patriarchy when there are plenty of other jokes I can make or ways I can phrase the same joke that aren’t at the expense of those around me.”
Maybe I want to live in a world where women are treated with the same respect as men. Part of making that change is not continuing to use language that is harmful towards them and calling out others for it when I see it.
TLDR: Do better OP. The bar is on the floor and you and everyone upvoting you still somehow missed it.
Appreciate the kind words! I feel like it’s one of those things where people are so caught up in the politics they are not thinking about the nuts and bolts or using their imagination.
Should I make rape jokes around a survivor? Should I set off fireworks or pop balloons around a soldier with PTSD? How about make 9/11 jokes at a firefighter who lost friends that day and barely survived? Nobody would hesitate to tell me to stop and that it’s not funny. I t be socially tarred and feathered. But I guarantee you there people out there who think those things are hilarious! So who decides?
It boils down to mutual respect. Simple as that. If somebody asks you to stop, just stop. You are not entitled to an explanation and they do not have to convince you in order for you to show them that you respect them and their dignity as a person. That’s ridiculous.
I’ll take that bet hombre 😉
Jokes is jokes
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So if I set off fireworks next to a soldier suffering PTSD from an IED that killed his squad and maimed him for life because I think it’s hysterical then I’m all clear?
If I run up to a sexual assault survivor and tell them “get raped” and laugh to an audience I’m shielded by “it’s a joke bro it’s hilarious”?
When fraternities showed up to a women’s clinic with torches at night shouting “no means yes, yes means anal” it was all good because a joke’s a joke right?
No imagination, no empathy. Same nonsense over and over.
