• HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    There is a real question about whether a relationship should continue after a transition, but doing it over texts and in such a debatey way is kinda weird.

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      2 days ago

      Don’t feel bad, I kind of thought that’s where this was going at first too.

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      2 days ago

      I think the implication is that this guy asked a woman to be his girlfriend, then cheated on her. When he was caught, he said that he only asked if He could be her boyfriend, but never claimed that she was his girlfriend, leaving him free to have other relationships. It’s a twisted logic that’s gaslighting the woman…

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        2 days ago

        Lmao, I might have read it wrong. I read “I never asked for a girlfriend” as “you were a man, now that you’re a woman I can’t be with you anymore.” 🤣

      • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works
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        I thought they meant transgression but they really did mean transition. Misread it as if the guy had a boyfriend who transitioned, and he didn’t want to have a girlfriend.