I mean I wouldn’t say my parents were abusive. They just loved telling stories and getting attention with their peers and our secrets were just prime material. But yeah still fucked up
Cool story bro. When did I ever say that I’m deciding it for you? Why don’t you look into it because all these people downvoting me are only feeding into the delusions of psychopaths. I’m only looking out for you and I’m guessing you don’t have the ability to make up your own mind because “you don’t think” I get to decide things for you.
Come on. You’ve never told something to someone else that someone confided in you, because you didn’t think it was a big deal (and ultimately it wasn’t)?
Abuse is a pattern. No parent is perfect. Abuse is about power and control, and as you noted this specific action is part of a larger abusive system. So absent that larger system of abuse, being a blabbermouth is a normal ass character flaw. Stop trying to diagnose people on the internet.
I mean I wouldn’t say my parents were abusive. They just loved telling stories and getting attention with their peers and our secrets were just prime material. But yeah still fucked up
No they were abusive you just haven’t realized it yet
I don’t think you get to decide that for me
Cool story bro. When did I ever say that I’m deciding it for you? Why don’t you look into it because all these people downvoting me are only feeding into the delusions of psychopaths. I’m only looking out for you and I’m guessing you don’t have the ability to make up your own mind because “you don’t think” I get to decide things for you.
Not everything is abusive.
What they are doing is part of a major system of abuse and the fact that I’m being downvoted is a symptom of it
Come on. You’ve never told something to someone else that someone confided in you, because you didn’t think it was a big deal (and ultimately it wasn’t)?
That’s a very tall horse to ride
Abuse is a pattern. No parent is perfect. Abuse is about power and control, and as you noted this specific action is part of a larger abusive system. So absent that larger system of abuse, being a blabbermouth is a normal ass character flaw. Stop trying to diagnose people on the internet.