• Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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    5 days ago

    This post still isn’t at bad as a roofie.

    We can start working on posts like this once we’ve solved the roofie problem.

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      5 days ago

      A roofie isn’t as bad as the bombing of schoolchildren. We can start working on roofing until we’ve solved the warcrime problem.

      • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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        4 days ago

        That’s usually not true.

        But with this specific issue, the most efficient solution is to help women. Women are being mean to the man community because the man community is harming women. There’s no solution that will get women to be nicer to your community more efficiently than getting your community to be nicer to women.

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          I disagree, because your suggestion is treating a symptom. The cause-- the structures and incentives causing the divide in the first place-- would remain, and you will never resolve all the symptoms until the cause is resolved. Trying to resolve every symptom first would result in a neverending battle.

    • Ricky Rigatoni@piefed.zip
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      5 days ago

      Why is roofying bad? She won’t remember it, and that’s good enough for women when they circumcise their infant boys.

      • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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        Circumcision is actually horrible. My partner is still really sad it was circumcised even after all those years.

        Circumcision doesn’t just affect men. People of all genders are circumcised and suffer for it. So please don’t make light of circumcision.