Not sure. Feels like one of those things where culture doesn’t know how to react to other parts of the same culture. Like it’s pushing muscular is masculine so gender affirmation should be being muscular, but also masculine is depending on who you ask is humble, or (straight masculine) doesn’t put much effort into themselves as they gain it “naturally” by taking care of those around them.

It’s just fucked ideas people have about others really. If people want to wear, look like, do whatever… That’s their perogative