• pdot4@lemmy.zip
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    15 hours ago

    Real. Dumped my ex because her self esteem was fucked. She even got jealous of my cousin when we talked.

    Work on yourself…

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      14 hours ago

      And I bet that reinforced her low self-esteem. I’ll explain what the actual problem is but they don’t hear it, they just hear the other reasons that they invented such as “I’m not attractive enough”.

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        10 hours ago

        They didn’t invent it, it’s just reinforced in society you’re not attractive unless (you spend a lot of money on surgery).

        Still exhausting to deal with.