To have sexual feelings for one’s spouse or to enjoy sexual pleasure with one’s spouse is fine and according to God’s design. But to use one’s spouse as an object of pleasure without concern for the spouse is mortally sinful.
its not a sin to ENJOY it, its a sin to do it for any other reason than procreation
where is your source?
and read humanitae vitae
Sex can be emotionally bonding when in marriage and for the purpose of reproduction, as to produce offspring, but never fall into the vice of hedonism
many have been fooled into thinking sex is a “need”
imagine a world of coke addicts unanimously agreeing that coke is a need
Source is my Catholic upbringing.
“the source is my parents”
and what is your parents source?
Catholic upbringing includes a lot more than just “parents”. If you won’t accept what clergy is saying, I can’t help you.
again, “my upbringing” is not a source
the catholic church did not ever say that sex was supposed to be practiced for any other reason than procreation and offspring
https://www.catholic.com/qa/is-it-true-that-sexual-intercourse-between-a-married-couple-is-sinful-if-the-spouses-do-it-with
There you go.
To have sexual feelings for one’s spouse or to enjoy sexual pleasure with one’s spouse is fine and according to God’s design. But to use one’s spouse as an object of pleasure without concern for the spouse is mortally sinful.
its not a sin to ENJOY it, its a sin to do it for any other reason than procreation
procreative and unitive*