To have sexual feelings for one’s spouse or to enjoy sexual pleasure with one’s spouse is fine and according to God’s design. But to use one’s spouse as an object of pleasure without concern for the spouse is mortally sinful.
its not a sin to ENJOY it, its a sin to do it for any other reason than procreation
again, “my upbringing” is not a source
the catholic church did not ever say that sex was supposed to be practiced for any other reason than procreation and offspring
https://www.catholic.com/qa/is-it-true-that-sexual-intercourse-between-a-married-couple-is-sinful-if-the-spouses-do-it-with
There you go.
To have sexual feelings for one’s spouse or to enjoy sexual pleasure with one’s spouse is fine and according to God’s design. But to use one’s spouse as an object of pleasure without concern for the spouse is mortally sinful.
its not a sin to ENJOY it, its a sin to do it for any other reason than procreation
procreative and unitive*