• Jeena@piefed.jeena.net
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    20 hours ago

    It gets more complicated in your late 30 and 40 because your patents push the wheel into your hands and you have to drive their car too at the same time.

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      19 hours ago

      That hits hard, I lost my mama 4 or five years ago and I’m in my late 30’s with no fucking clue what’s going on.

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        3 hours ago

        My spouse lost their Mon around that age 25 years ago (dead by 40’s), I just lost mine (still too young, early 70’s).

        It doesn’t really get easier, but maybe I’m better equipped to handle it. Unfortunately I think I may have a bit too good of an idea about what is going on, just not what to do about it.

        Meanwhile, my friend has a 99yo mom and will still be devastated at the impending loss.

        Stay strong.