having a low tolerance for loss of control IMO is connected to a general anxiety, having made bad life experiences, having been hurt by others etc . this are not inherent character traits but develop in a rough and coldhearted environment.
I think it’s also function of toxic masculinity - to trust your body to someone else goes against everything that’s taught about being macho.
To be blindfolded and tied is a very intense emotional experience, even before anything actually gets done … intense emotions are also considered bad by ‘tough guys’
having a low tolerance for loss of control IMO is connected to a general anxiety, having made bad life experiences, having been hurt by others etc . this are not inherent character traits but develop in a rough and coldhearted environment.
I think it’s also function of toxic masculinity - to trust your body to someone else goes against everything that’s taught about being macho.
To be blindfolded and tied is a very intense emotional experience, even before anything actually gets done … intense emotions are also considered bad by ‘tough guys’