I’ve had plenty of dates and situationships, nothing long term ever. But I’m also childfree and sterilized, so dating is a lot more difficult for me. In Germany most women want children
It’s actually really simple: did they message me first? 100% of the time they were bots.
The problem is, anyone you message is using the same test, thus deciding that you are a bot. The only logical way to handle this is to ensure you start all messages with “Greetings fellow human, I have perused the photographs of yourself that you put online. Not only are they very attractive – they’re interesting too. You did the right thing putting them up, and it was very brave to do so. I would lime to get to know you better…” That way no-one will be confused.
It’s so fun to be able to tell who’s a bot on the dating sites.
It’s actually really simple: did they message me first? 100% of the time they were bots.
Is this some kind of American phenomenon? I’m very active on Tinder and get maybe one bot or scammer a year, out of over a hundred matches
But still no luck? Consider that the algorithm has engagement as it’s goal.
I’ve had plenty of dates and situationships, nothing long term ever. But I’m also childfree and sterilized, so dating is a lot more difficult for me. In Germany most women want children
Right, you could also be looking for something casual, my bad.
Oh no, I’m absolutely looking for something long term. Just no luck yet
Same.
Not sure how it is now, I gave up completely over a year ago after a decade of trying. They were pretty bad ~2 years ago in the US.
Not true!
Some of the people who message you first are human! Human scammers, human onlyfans girls who want you to pay for nudes, etc.
Good point, I unfairly took their humanity away when I included them in the bot category.
…But then again they took their own humanity away when they decided to become scammers lol
The problem is, anyone you message is using the same test, thus deciding that you are a bot. The only logical way to handle this is to ensure you start all messages with “Greetings fellow human, I have perused the photographs of yourself that you put online. Not only are they very attractive – they’re interesting too. You did the right thing putting them up, and it was very brave to do so. I would lime to get to know you better…” That way no-one will be confused.
Idk, I get human girls messaging me somewhat regularly. Never the ones I want to see, but still…
The difference between bots and humans is that bots dont go on dates
I have to imagine that means you’re at least a somewhat desirable person.
I am not lol
There’s your problem