• FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    I’m a middle-aged man who doesn’t exercise whatsoever and drinks heavily

    I post a variety of stuff, from unhinged performance art to fairly elegant artistic nudes

    They’re all well-received

    They take effort, but I guarantee that the things that you think make a good photo aren’t what most women are looking for

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      9 hours ago

      That’s good to know, I’ve probably been influenced too much by social medias rage bait regarding that matter. Thanks for the grounding.

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        9 hours ago

        Whatever you do, completely ignore what guys say (with the notable exception of men like myself)

        If you want to know what women like, ask women

        And actually listen to them

        None of the “yeah, but” bullshit

        There is no “but

        Just listen to women.

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          8 hours ago

          Good point, just not understanding something tends to make overthink on the subject, but that subject probably falls unde the “just have to take their word for it” thing.