• Lantsu@sopuli.xyz
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    9 hours ago

    Almost the same, was able to identify the problem and do some home… anti-excersices and I’m doing so much better now. The idea of a tight pussy might be fun, and sure if it’s a one time thing it is a lot of fun for the one who penetrates… But to live with and to be with in a longer relationship? No fun, for neither. Causing pain when it should be pleasure is not ideal.

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      59 minutes ago

      As the one who penetrates: one that gets tight while orgasming is much more fun than one that’s constantly tight.

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      6 hours ago

      My wife’s going through the same thing right now. Lemme tell you, having your partner literally cry in pain from penetration and lose literally all libido because of the consistent pain ain’t worth the slightly tighter experience

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        4 hours ago

        Been there… Yet my ex partners didn’t care, they were happy with the tightness. I hope it gets better for you two.

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          Yet my ex partners didn’t care

          Jesus Christ that’s not okay!

          In our case it’s on the up and up, therapy has started noticably working and we might be able to start rebuilding our sexual relationship by the end of the year if her body continues cooperating with our desires

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      7 hours ago

      I’m sorry that sounds awful. Not the same but I’ve started having prostate spasms and those are fucking horrible

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        7 hours ago

        I know a guy with those, they stop all the fun and fast! All the best to you!

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          2 hours ago

          Intense pain around your taint. It gets to the point that I can’t move or think when it happens, and it is triggered by “stuff” moving through my bowels so usually it makes me want to take an urgent shit while I’m immobile and in agony