It depends heavily why i feel they look scary, ime.
Purely aesthetic? Probably chill; i assume you don’t put on an intimidating aesthetic to become an abuser, that’s stupid and counterproductive. Bad vibe? Probably not chill.
Then again people apparently find me, tiny little person I am, intimidating and I’ve never understood why. Guess I need to whip out the chanclas. Live up to it. Not Hispanic in the slightest, but if men are already intimidated…. 🤷🏻♀️
But also i mean i was that weird psuedo-goth (never came close to having the money to be goth, its so fucking expensive, so i winged it with thrift store stuff and creativity, i liked the look) so i get that looks are deceptive.
It depends heavily why i feel they look scary, ime.
Purely aesthetic? Probably chill; i assume you don’t put on an intimidating aesthetic to become an abuser, that’s stupid and counterproductive. Bad vibe? Probably not chill.
Then again people apparently find me, tiny little person I am, intimidating and I’ve never understood why. Guess I need to whip out the chanclas. Live up to it. Not Hispanic in the slightest, but if men are already intimidated…. 🤷🏻♀️
But also i mean i was that weird psuedo-goth (never came close to having the money to be goth, its so fucking expensive, so i winged it with thrift store stuff and creativity, i liked the look) so i get that looks are deceptive.