Honestly, monogamy and the relationship escalator is a curse.
Those people would likely be happier if they were just friends with benefits. Instead they have to start a new relationship, commitments, too much, break up, then miss each other and try making it work again, then fail as the relationship escalator demands more.
I’ve never seen a couple that operates this way do so in a healthy manner that they seem happy with. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I’ve never seen it.
Honestly, monogamy and the relationship escalator is a curse.
Those people would likely be happier if they were just friends with benefits. Instead they have to start a new relationship, commitments, too much, break up, then miss each other and try making it work again, then fail as the relationship escalator demands more.
Yeah. Idk I think sometimes it’s just two toxic people who enjoy or are at least fine with the drama. But other times I’m sure you’re right too.
maybe, but if a relationship like that fits them better, together for a while, separate, back together… then what’s wrong with that?
I’ve never seen a couple that operates this way do so in a healthy manner that they seem happy with. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but I’ve never seen it.