• NONE@lemmy.world
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    5 hours ago

    As long as you don’t “correct” or act like you know better that minorities, you will be a good Ally.

    Don’t say “I will help you!”, instead ask “how can i help you?”

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      It’s funny because I’m constantly seeing minority groups telling white people not to ask how to help and to just figure it out and help or get out of the way.

      It’s kinda frustrating hearing so many different takes on white people trying to help because it feels like a large portion don’t want us to help at all

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        That’s the question from which fucked up shit start to happen, but let’s take it at face value.

        In that case, you can look for a segment of the minority group that aligns with your ideals (because not all of us think the same way, we’re not a collective mind) and offer them your support.

        Do you encounter, say, Latinos who support Trump? Leave them alone and offer support to Latinos who are critical of Trump; We’ll know how to use your help to take actions that benefit all of us, including those who are “wrong.”

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            It is important to understand the context of who defined it.

            It was mainly defined by queer people in various Latin communities as a self descriptor. LGBT acceptance within the various Spanish speaking communities in general is nowhere near universal, which explains why adoption of Latinx isn’t a thing.

            I’d only use the descriptor if I knew that a lot of people there within earshot wanted to use that description.

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            Nop! Not a single bit!

            I doesn’t fit the pronunciation rules of most latinamerican countries, not even Brazil. I mean, How do you “say” that? what sound does the X represents? It’s like “LatinEx”? That sounds so silly! Like a Kingdom Hearts Villain or something.

            If you want to be inclusive / non-binary, you better use “Latine” (La-ti-ne). That’s how the “inclusive language” works here.

            Although, I argue that “Latino” is OK either way, since you’re talking about the collective from “LATINO-America”.

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              Are there still more than like 5 people trying to make Latinx a thing? I thought that one kind of died out early on, but I’m not a member of that community.

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              thank you. i’m not latino, but it always struck me as WTF when all of a sudden “let me be offended for you” people decided they needed to “fix” an entire language’s “sexist” word that none of its speakers were ever offended by