• REDACTED@infosec.pub
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    17 hours ago

    Huh? My comment literally says the opposite - asking why you do that. There are similar height people for everyone, dating someone that’s nearly two times your height just borderline seems like a fetish

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      16 hours ago

      Maybe, and this is just a crazy hunch, but maybe they fell in love for reasons other than height.

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      17 hours ago

      Then a large percentage of tall men would have to stay single, since women are shorter on average. I’ve personally met very few women who are my height, and I’m not even that tall.

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        I doubt a large percentage of men are having problems finding a woman that’s not such a drastic height difference. I never said shorter, I’m talking about the difference being so big it starts to seriously look off. That’s also not very common, quite rare actually, but you know the few men I’m talking about.

        EDIT: This reminds me of a rather popular word where I live called lolita

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          Well maybe you’d try to choose a partner solely based on your depraved fetishes but most people prioritize other things.

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              Height is rather irrelevant to people besides you closet pedophiles, is what I was saying if reading is too hard for you.

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                But why would you say that me of all people would prefer it, the one person who visibly shows disgust towards it?

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                  Again. Someone pointed out that in general women prefer men that are like 8" taller whereas men prefer women who are 3" shorter, and you refuse to talk about how it might not be the man preferring a very short wife, but the wife preferring a very tall man.

                  Instead you double down on “damn, them be some child-like features the men are going for”.

                  What does that tell everyone? You are CHOOSING to interpret a height differential to be about child like features, ignoring evidence to the contrary.

                  Why would you choose that?

                  I don’t personally think that’s what you’re into. But I think you have a poorly justified opinion.

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                  Because you’re clearly sexually obsessed with small stature. You’re the one whose thoughts immediately laser-focused to fucking children.

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        And, it looks like a fetish. It’s just weird. I sometimes can’t tell if that’s your daughter or a wife

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          What’s weird is you assuming tall men dating short women have anything to do with children.

          My wife is 12in shorter than me, and I have an ex that is 2in shorter than me. Height isn’t a determining factor in my preference of who my partner is.

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            Do I sound mad or something? Is it truly such an unpopular opinion to say that aiming for girls who are half your size is weird?

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              You are relating people who like shorter people to pedophiles when you keep bringing children into the discussion.

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              If it’s weird to you, don’t date a grown adult who’s shorter than you. You don’t have to tell other people how to live their life.

              I’m not into furries. But that doesn’t mean I’m going to go online and shit on anyone who is.