It all comes down to consent and communication - not just about butts (or gender). Your partner may or may not like it when you touch them a certain way. They may also tolerate an interaction even if they don’t seek it out.
If your partner complains when you do something to them, it’s possible that they’re just playing around, but if there’s any doubt you should either stop that behavior or discuss with the partner whether it’s okay. It also may be something situational - the partner might like something in the midst of passion, but not while walking down the hallway.
You shouldn’t not touch your partner’s butt because they’ll get mad. You should not touch it if they don’t want you to because that would be a violation of their trust and desires.
That said, if the partner is cool with it, you should definitely touch their butt.
It all comes down to consent and communication - not just about butts (or gender). Your partner may or may not like it when you touch them a certain way. They may also tolerate an interaction even if they don’t seek it out.
If your partner complains when you do something to them, it’s possible that they’re just playing around, but if there’s any doubt you should either stop that behavior or discuss with the partner whether it’s okay. It also may be something situational - the partner might like something in the midst of passion, but not while walking down the hallway.
You shouldn’t not touch your partner’s butt because they’ll get mad. You should not touch it if they don’t want you to because that would be a violation of their trust and desires.
That said, if the partner is cool with it, you should definitely touch their butt.
edit: Possible, not possibly.