• cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    I actually did talk to a lot of Chinese queers back when that was easier¹. It was a pretty grim picture.

    The ones ive talked yo recently don’t live there-because it’s not a great place to be queer, and since the place I live got a lot more fuckef up, they don’t live here either, so I can’t ask them.

    ¹because of the censorship

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          Script? It’s easier than ever to talk to queer people in China, that’s a fact, and it’s also a fact that conditions are steadily improving. Being vague like saying “it’s grim” or that you can’t because of “censorship getting worse” isn’t a point, or anything I can engage with, beyond telling you to actually talk to them.

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            I did, back when i didnt have to use heavily censored bullshit social networks almost a quarter as bad as Facebook. I’m not doing that.

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              Gotcha, so at best you’re ignorant of the situation and are posturing based on assumptions, rather than actually talking with them to get their perspectives. I understand not wanting to use social media that isn’t like the fediverse, but then you have to make that concession. Seems more like self-censorship than anything China’s doing.

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                No more ignorant than you, dear. If you think you’re getting honest impressions from a platfptm1/8th as fucked as Facebook, you’re delusional.

                I got good honest data from peers in China, not recently. Ive seen the trajectory. It tracks. Roughly confirmed by people who had been there recently as recently as last year, before my region got added to the ‘oh fuck’ list. Which might be worse than where I think China is, but that doesn’t make where China is okay, and doesn’t make me feel welcome or safe there. Your insistence that I must is honestly dangerous and reads as passively obliviously queer phobic.

                Every reply you make to me somehow makes me think less of you. It’s kind of impressive.

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                  My point is that while China has problems, it’s steadily improving. Throwing in fearmongering about things like “censorship” and incoherent jabs at Marxism concoct a viewpoint that is just passively chauvanistic. I’m not queerphobic, nor am I denying that China has problems to work through, I’m trying to get you to view China more sympathetically and not as some terror regime the people are in constant fear of. The vast majority of people in China support their system, and that includes queer people, so it’s obviously something they understand is improving as well.

                  I don’t really care what you think of me, if I’m being honest. I have seen extreme bad-faith from you, as well as incoherent points and a refusal to accept facts. Replying to you is more for others to see, than it is to change your mind, as I can see that it’s highly unlikely you will.

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                    steadily improving

                    Seems about the same on queer rights.

                    And you dont have to be gradual about this. See again: fucking Cuba.

                    I don’t think it’s a terror regime², I think it’s a banal authoritarian shit hole with plenty of bread and circuses. It’s not bad, but its not paradise, and I wouldn’t even say it’s good. I’m not fucking blaming Marxism. I’m pointing out that Marxism is clearly not the problem here, whether I agree with it or not.

                    I’m not certain you can read.

                    ²i live in one of those!