• TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today
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    5 days ago

    Eh… My little cousins live in Korea and come from money, it still sounds kinda crappy. 8 hours of school then instrument practice, dance class, and after school academy… the little dudes get home at like 9-10pm every night. One of them calls all the time and begs us to host him when he’s ready for college, the little guy just wants to play football.

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      4 days ago

      This sounds like a consequence of coming from money. Some rich parents are slave drivers and others are just happy having their kids live off the trust fund. Wealth makes being a good parent more challenging.

      That being said, most kids want to vet away from their parents and establish themselves at that age.

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        4 days ago

        Nah, it’s pretty normal in South Korea. School and the expectations of success are just brutal over there. It’s not unusual to see groups of kids coming home from school/after school programs after dark.

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          3 days ago

          Watched a video before of kids from Whales doing an exchange with Korean students, and they were miserable. Like you said, they were getting back home late from clubs and cram tutoring at like 10pm, and would then get up for school around 6am or so.

          This is just an unfortunately common thing in Asian countries, getting into the best schools is treated like a life-or-death thing for many.

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            2 days ago

            Yeap, including cram schools most kids highschool and below are pulling 12-16 hour days. Over there grade school and highschool are where you put your work in and really over exert yourself, and then college and grad school are a cake walk and when you get to finally party your ass off.

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      4 days ago

      Anime tends to parody that high intensity life, though.

      Naruto is an anime about little kids being overworked and forced to grow up too fast. Love Is War is about two hyper competitive students who can’t come to terms with their love for one another. Madoka Magica is about your childhood dreams maturing into soul crushing nightmares for the profit of some alien force.