• peoplebeproblems@midwest.social
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    15 hours ago

    Yeah, see, I’m thinking “order 1 gfe to go” isn’t for me.

    I’ve been separated/divorced (for about 2, years) from a relationship where the intimacy was one sided. For 11 years I stayed married cause that was the only girlfriend I had too.

    A GFE sounds like it would be a nightmare for the provider. Especially because I don’t know how I’d handle it emotionally.

    I gotta date real women first. Somehow.

    • phdepressed@sh.itjust.works
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      11 hours ago

      I can’t speak to it as I haven’t done one but I can get the desire. I never went on a date or had a gf or any sexual experience until I was 25 and it wasn’t for lack of trying…paying for it would be a sort of bandaid to the issue of loneliness but I wonder if it decreases the chance of becoming an incel.