You are right. Someone else said that. My bad. I guess I would ask you to consider the targets of the jokes, see where they say the line is.
You are right. Someone else said that. My bad. I guess I would ask you to consider the targets of the jokes, see where they say the line is.
Fair. I’m glad you edited this comment. Originally you claimed I invented Reddit sexism. Glad to see this change. Someone else said this.
I’ll revise what I said. Maybe 2015 Reddit is more accurate. That’s when the me too movement was kicking off.
A lot of men did a stupid thing where they weirdly reacted to the movement where they said:
“I don’t know what’s allowed any more. Woe is I. I guess I just won’t talk to women in the office any more.”
What you said about jokes with women is very similar to this. “Someone said Lemmy has a sexism problem. I guess you can’t make jokes involving women any more”
Lemmy can be a better place. We can make it that way together.
😂 Imagine doubling down on 2012 Reddit sexism.
Classic 2012 Reddit response. Lemmy has a sexism problem and it shows.
You remind me of the ”I’ll never talk to women in the office again” people during the me too movement.


I feel the same way about sway. This being said Niri + Noctalia is a really powerful stable setup (in my experience) that gives you all the fancy effects.
There is even a setup wizard so you don’t need to mess with config files as much.
Tons of fun once you get past the first week of misery in switching. Full support here. :)
I personally use Engrammer. This being said I know the symbol locations can be a shock, thus the other recommendations too. :)
FYI there are much better layouts than even Dvorak.
During Covid a ton of work was done on key layouts. Whole new statistical analysis tools were written from scratch. If you are looking for a new key layout I would focus on post Covid ones.
Personally I like Graphite, Gallium, and Engrammer.
https://github.com/rdavison/graphite-layout


They’re trying to exploit what they consider a loophole in the AGPL to stop people from forking the project.
At the same time they refuse to accept any PRs.
FSF has a great write up about it.
https://www.fsf.org/blogs/licensing/agpl-is-not-a-tool-for-taking-freedom-away
Hey man I get it. But at this point I don’t think there is any reason to think blahaj as an instance is bigoted in any way, and there is every reason to think they are quite the opposite.
I hope you feel better soon. Best we end this chat to reduce trauma and increase healing.
I understand. And I can see the ableism examples that you put forward.
Do you have any example of the Nazi takeover of blahaj? Or that they are bigoted towards bi men or non binary people? Like I want to give you the benefit of the doubt here, but I just see the opposite of what you are claiming.
You are right that people can be blind to such things though. And that is why I am asking you. I very much don’t think I would be blind to a Nazi takeover of blahaj, but I admit you may see something that I don’t.
Once again is there any example that you could point out?
I do hang out with them a lot. A lot of my favorite communities are there. I see no Nazi tolerance at all there let alone “taking over” I also see none of this bigotry that you say is there. Contrarily, I see an active anti bigotry set of rules policies and guidelines in general. In the community culture I also see a strong belief in the stated values.
I am willing to change my views on the instance but what you claim, I am just not seeing.
That sounds not so nice. Is there an example out there or the like?
No, but I’ve seen my fair share of concern trolling.
I am neither a bi man nor nonbinary and care, but I value my time.
I’m sorry. I’m not on blahaj.
Bigotry towards bi men and non-binary folk seems very much not like them.
Are you a bi man or non-binary person? If so I would be interested hearing what sort of discrimination you faced at blahaj. I recommend them quite a bit but would rather not if they are hateful in that way.
Yup! They work really hard to create a strong queer space. That means they work hard to exclude bigotry and the like, even in its micro aggression form.
Yahhhhh. It’s a rough situation to be a non tankie on a tankie instance.
The issue is that a lot? a majority? a great majority? of users there have very “out there” opinions and more and more of them are trying to be more subtle about it.
Avg .ml user: Long winded post about why war is bad
Avg responder: I agree war should be avoided for the harm it causes.
Avg .ml user: Therefore we all must support Russia against the imperialist Ukrainians!
Avg responder: Russia started the war. Why should we support them?
Avg .ml user: Because NATO forced Russia to invade. In reality it was NATOs fault!
Avg responder: I wasted my time here. No point in arguing.
The average non .ml user has been through this or seen this enough to be cautious of seemingly reasonable balanced arguments from .ml users.
I totally get staying, but personally if I woke up and my account was on .ml I would move.
Different policies and rules mostly. Lemmy.ml has a ton of weirdly pro Russia and China admins on it. Very tankie Stalinist. blahaj.zone Is really nicely queer friendly. dbzer0.com has a cool anarchist hacker culture etc.
For me the problem I have with lemmy.ml is that that if you disagree with Russia’s invasion on one news community you’ll find yourself banned from the Linux community.


I think you’re mixing things up here. Mac’s are actually VERY performant, both objectively and relative to the on board ram.
There are many critiques that can be made of macOS. But saying it runs inefficiently is not one of them.
Just fyi IPv8 was written by LLM with full on hallucinated citations and references. It isn’t being taken seriously by anyone.
It didn’t even make sense. It relies on DNS for nat and the like. Deranged networking plans from the non-mind of an LLM.
I recommend taking the time to learn IPv6 properly. It’s actually quite elegant and brings back the peer to peer, endpoint to endpoint connection ability of the old internet.