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Cake day: July 13th, 2023

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  • Honestly for the love of sanity you should probably also stop using Lemmy, for similar reasons. Many of the large communities heavily censor, and many communities are super toxic.

    Reddit is occasionally still useful for getting answers to questions because they actually have a user base to support niche subjects. I never post, but there is a good chance someone has already asked the question I have and there is an actual answer, unlike here.

    I browse Lemmy like once a week, but I try to limit actually posting or commenting like once or twice a month, because the engagement is often so vitriolic that it causes anxiety and is generally bad for me. The benign communities are usually small and boring.













  • This is a strawman

    Not a straw man. All the people here are telling you that this is the way they feel, and you’re telling them that they’re wrong and they don’t actually know how they feel.

    Fediverse isn’t everyone

    I didn’t say it was everyone. I said in the face of everyone correcting you.

    You’re the one going for the gotchas and the dunks. I’m just defending myself.

    Defending yourself against what, exactly? This all started because you told people how they feel and they said they feel different and you refused to accept that.

    truly believes that his wife always loved him for his intelligence when she dumps him

    Dude what the hell is that rant? You’re telling me you don’t have issues to work out? You just got done telling me about how the fediverse isn’t everyone and now you’re gonna tell me that all hetero women need to be constantly dicked down or they leave? Where is that coming from?


  • everyone except me is hiding the truth about what they really feel, but I know the truth!

    That’s the position you’re going to double down on, in the face of everyone correcting you? No, the therapist won’t think you’re crazy at all.

    You think you’ve found a gotcha, but you’re still just outing yourself. You think that a romantic relationship involves a single type of attraction, and that a single type of attraction affects sexual arousal? If I believed you capable of long term romantic relationships, I’d pity your spouse.