• affenlehrer@feddit.org
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    8 hours ago

    It’s not my cup of tea either but I guess it’s about mental domination. Like an “ultimate” form of teasing. The cuck longs for the dom but is completely disregarded and instead someone else gets the doms attention and pleasure. So I think it’s a bit like tease and denial.

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      2 hours ago

      Yeah but it somehow crosses a barrier in my brain that just really fucking annoys me. Im somewhat into femdom n’stuff you know but even as a sub i would NEVER be a cuck. Like thats instantly where the relationship ends for me. Idk maybe a lot of people dont think about it this way cause i see so many people enjoying at least the content side of it. Also being the dom(idk what they call the opposite of the cuck) still feels disgusting. Once again i totally get doing a mmf threesome or something but just fucking someone while their SO watches would make me puke.

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        1 hour ago

        I think I understand you now. I could also never be a cuck. However, when I stumble upon this kind of porn, I don’t have this feeling of disgust. I think it’s because I don’t identify with the cuck the same way as you do. Unless I made the video myself (I don’t make videos) all characters in porn movies are strangers to me. I like women and if the porn movie has a women that attracts me she’ll (because it’s a movie) always have sex with someone else, not me. So it wouldn’t make sense for me to feel jealous or hurt because of it. If there’s a cuck in such a video it’s just another dude in my view and him being mentally tormented is just an idea or symbol of her absolute power over men. However, in real life I wouldn’t want to be in this kind of situation, especially not with someone I deeply care about. It’s weird and so is my mind.