• xkbx@startrek.website
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    1 day ago

    okay so i am introverted but not hot so i thought i couldnt relate. but i am fairly tattooed, and since i am a fat guy, i tend to wear shorts and t shirts a lot. having people stare at the exposed parts of my body makes me both uncomfortably self-conscious and inflates my ego. is this what hot people feel like?

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      My experience being hot is that I will catch another hot person checking me out. And since they are hot, of course, I want to fuck them. But then I get nervous about approaching them because what if they actually weren’t checking me out, or if they were but it actually isnt socially appropriate to approach them at this particular moment, or if they’re going to start talking to me about astrology and I’ll have to pretend to be interested for a minute and a half before politely excusing myself.