• realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip
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    2 hours ago

    I don’t see how allowing biological men in the womens bathroom is making anyone’s life better, especially considering the downsides which is that many women find it extremely troubling to see men in an area that is usually reserved for them.

    • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
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      3 minutes ago

      I’m a woman and I’ll even agree with you women should be able to make private spaces that let in only who the women inside choose - that’s not how public restrooms work however. I have no particular expectations when using a restroom beyond having a private stall to use for my self and others and that others mind their own business unless it’s to say something nice or helpful to someone else, I don’t actually care what their genitals, DNA, way of dress or body look like in anyway just that they follow bathroom decorum. If all bathrooms were just private ceiling to floor with doors that don’t have cracks around them and anyone was allowed to use them I think that would be ideal and help everyone because bathroom usage could be spread among a larger number of stalls, likely shorten the route to a bathroom if you don’t have to go searching for your gender and I say this as a person who use to use portable oxygen finding a toilet only for men when I was at my most sick knowing I had to dedicate more of my very limited energy to tracking down a woman’s bathroom sucked.

      You’re literally being ableist towards people like me, I have cystic fibrosis and was born disabled, because you think you can speak for women as a whole, don’t put words in women’s mouths. If you are a woman and you feel that way then speak for yourself don’t involve the rest of us, thanks.

    • BipolarSilence@lemmy.cafe
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      53 minutes ago

      There it is! Just a transphobe hiding behind ‘innocent’ questions. Oh boy do I got an easy solution for you