• MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 hours ago

    Nooo? Your father being a piece of shit doesn’t mean that, as an adult women with independent thought, that you are not also a piece of shit.

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      4 hours ago

      She is a piece pf shit but she didn’t ask for the shit that happened to her when she was a child.

      • MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        3 hours ago

        Of course she didn’t, but by continuing to associate with her abuser in a profusely positive way, and as a person who has pretty much always backed up all of the weird stuff about her that her father said, she is tacitly giving retroactive support and permission. Victimhood stops the moment you begin victimizing