• rabber@lemmy.ca
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    3 hours ago

    I’m in shape and zero chance of dating a fat girl. Am I fat phobic?

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      2 hours ago

      I hope you don’t make someone’s life miserable once they get narried to you and they become out of shape. Or do you have some kind of shitty photographic memory where you remember you married a slim person and can see through fat?

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        1 hour ago

        Higher chance I get fat and she leaves me. My gf is the one keeping me active and I would deserve to be left behind if I treated my body like shit.

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          1 hour ago

          That’s a harsh and cruel way to think. Maybe realize that the body can gain fat even with a perfect diet and exercise for reasons beyond one’s control.

    • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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      2 hours ago

      Only if you post memes about how much you’re not interested in them. Do you post memes about how you don’t like fat people?

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        2 hours ago

        No but does anyone really like fat people if we are being honest? Fat acceptance is kind of nefarious no?

        Would be like being alcoholic phobic. Don’t worry about what they say girl, own it! Drink 12 beers per day!

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          1 hour ago

          Yeah, plenty of people like fat people. And plenty of people choose to be or to become fat.

          I was gonna say you’re not fatphobic, since you don’t talk about this stuff unprompted. But when prompted, you started assuming everyone feels the same way as you and dismissing the diversity of different people’s preferences in a way I don’t like. I think you should be more open minded. Not everyone is the same as you.