• WraithGear@lemmy.world
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      13 hours ago

      by the time someone tells you directly they are annoyed by something you have done, it’s gone past the “ i don’t like it but i’m going to just deal with it” stage.

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        24 hours ago

        She’s annoyed but not mad. She wants to be acknowledged but not fight. It’s not a big deal if you say I’m so sorry about that and move on.

        Bonus points if you buy a new throw.

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        1 day ago

        She set clear expectations, so the communication is there. I would set down a plastic mat next time before eating a chocolate bar on the bed.

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      1 day ago

      it’s assumed that a woman is always mad at their male partner unless they are actively doing something to make her happy.

      it’s a relationship trope.

      and by mad not really angry, so much as dissatisfied.