• zikzak025@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    I think it was considered normal for couples to argue pretty much daily.

    How many people grew up thinking that marriage is supposed to look like that ? My gawd. People must have been miserable.

    Probably likely for a lot of folks. It took so. damn. long. for divorce to be made legal across the western world, and even longer than that to get to the point where the burden of an unhappy marriage was no longer outweighed by the scandal of divorce.

    Before no-fault divorces became common, unhappy couples would sometimes even voluntarily fake an affair just to act as “proof” of adultery for a divorce.